Xiaochen has become more and more fond of working overtime lately, and even when her work is done, she will not dawdle back until 10 p.m. The company’s main goal is to provide a solution to the problem. How could she tell her colleagues that her co-tenant was a guy and was recently making a strong advances on her? Chen, who has no feelings for her co-renter, has nowhere to go after work and has to stay at the office under the pretext of working overtime. She fervently hopes that the rental period will pass sooner and she can move out and live alone.
“Heterosexual sharing” has become a trend
In fact, “heterosexual sharing” is no longer news, it is becoming an increasingly recognizable term in modern life, and is quite popular in urban areas. It’s becoming an increasingly recognizable term in modern life and quite popular in urban areas. It’s not hard to see advertisements seeking “heterosexuals to share a room” in some of Beijing’s urban newspapers, real estate websites, and even on some university campuses. It’s very popular for young people to share a room to save money and not get lonely.
But the downside of this kind of sharing is that many people are thinking about it. “The company’s main goal is to provide a good solution to the problem. The company’s main goal is to provide a simple way for men and women to get to know each other and to seek a piece of warmth in a lonely city. The company’s main goal is to provide a better solution to the problem.
On this issue, different people have different opinions:
Opinion 1: Heterosexual co-renting helps the co-renters to get along well with each other and seek more warmth
As the saying goes, opposites attract. When a man and a woman get together, both sides try to show their good sides to each other, the man becomes more responsible, and the woman becomes more considerate. This way both parties can get some psychological satisfaction and eliminate the friction between the same sex for some minor things.
Opinion 2: Men are wolves in sheep’s clothing, the so-called heterosexual sharing is an ambiguous trap
It is undeniable that when men and women live together, there will always be some inevitable awkwardness. Even if it is God, I believe there will be budding, ambiguous, and even some badly held mistakes of the column. Of course, there are also some people in with mischievous intentions under the sign of sharing a room.
Why do you want to share a room
The first thing about “heterosexual sharing” is to find a co-renter. We are looking for a co-renter, for what? The first thing you need to do is to find a person to share a room with, to reduce expenses, to relieve loneliness, to have a discussion about life, and to let us young workers have a place to talk to after work. From these aspects, heterosexual sharing is optional, and has its advantages. But there are social factors that we must take into account when we make our choices. No matter how we choose to live, we are living in this society and in a culture like China. There is some social pressure for men and women to live together, and there is a lot of inconvenience for intimate matters, and even some sexual harassment.
6 Tips to Remember When Sharing a Room!
1. Heterosexual co-habitants should have the confidence to create a new relationship between men and women, to be able to deal with problems rationally, and to have good self-control. For the gossip in the society, there should be enough psychological preparation and coping measures.
2. Rent-drinkers should share the rent and have a clear understanding of each other’s financial situation. The first thing you need to do is to agree on a cost-sharing ratio before you share a room, and it’s best to have an AA system for all kinds of expenses so that you don’t “take the easy way out and eat the short end of the stick”.
3. A co-renter with common interests to live together. The dynamic energy of a guy and the meticulousness of a girl can make life together even better if they complement each other well.
4. Respect each other and don’t interfere with each other’s privacy. The first thing you need to do is to wear too casual, sexy clothes in and out of the living room or public places. Girls especially need to keep their self-respect and sobriety.
5. Girls should pay special attention to safety issues and should make appropriate preparations for contingencies, such as informing their close friends of their phone numbers and bringing friends over to check on them. When one is in the room, remember to close the door and make sure to lock it when you go to bed.
6. For other matters that you can’t stand, such as keeping pets, you should make a gentleman’s agreement beforehand before sharing a room to ensure that you avoid future verbal disputes.