If you are a little woman who is all set to get married, then please don’t rush to review your wedding dress, honeymoon destination, future children and other unimaginable questions first. I’d like to say that you should first review whether your wedding dress is ready, where you’re going on your honeymoon, how many children you’re going to have, and so on. I would say, please open your eyes first to see standing on your right hand side is about to or has given you the ring on the man, he is not a reasonable marriage object. Because the ring can be put on and then take off, but the wedding will not be as comfortable as you think in and out. So today it’s time to complete the first step of ReadyToMarry: skim off the bad guy and start a family again.
There are four types of bad guys, and if you meet one, please don’t leave them out. The first of these is a relationship with a man who can be fooled for a while, but as a husband, they will bring you unexpected gifts of married life, enough to turn you upside down.
First, please skim the childish men first
The childishness here The childishness should be strictly differentiated from the childishness. Men are of course more or less childish and childlike in their expression, but childish men often appear with a polished appearance and a successful career. You have to think twice whether it is his PaulSmith that attracts you, or whether it is the fact that he owns a design company at a young age that makes you tick. Many seemingly young and talented men are actually just spoiled rotten apples with seemingly exciting and dazzling careers, but in reality have no ability to take care of themselves, much less their partners. One of the big reasons women look for such men is their irresistible talent, that is, if you are willing to take care of a prodigy for life, then I have no more advice to give. You’ll be a respectable single mother who not only has to provide for her family, but also has to deal with his endless Oedipus complex at all times. And, of course, you won’t be spared from competing with his own mother from time to time.
Second, please write off the cheap man
If he doesn’t If he doesn’t have unemployment insurance, but you pay for more than 80 percent of his weekly meals, then I’m afraid it’s time to think about your life. The equal employment of men and women in society, perhaps a man should not be required to do your unlimited ATM, but at least it can not be a penny pincher who likes to renege, not willing to pay for their own. The strange thing is that some mothers are particularly optimistic that such a man will be your lifelong dependence, they will say to the half-hearted you: “become a family is a family, his money can also be used where to go? Children, careful calculation of life is to be.” But the consequence is often that he treasures the family table more than he treasures you, and the reason you quarrel after marriage is nothing more than that you spilled milk on the carpet made in Uzbekistan, or because you broke the switch of the water fountain or something. Of course, Mom is right, he is safe, at least he won’t be generous enough to keep another woman outside.
Third, please write off the womanizer
Your relationship with him Did your relationship with him ever involve any kind of third party or fourth nth person? He is not in the pile of women is particularly talkative, the phone book is full of women’s names? Of course, I don’t deny the myth of the playboy gaining a conscience overnight, but the playfulness here is more about frivolity and irresponsibility, and don’t believe that marriage will change that for the better.
The philandering man is more about not true love, but cheating; not hunger, but gluttony, and the more you feed him the more gluttonous he becomes. It may also be just a few short messages a few msn conversations tuned to a small love child, there is a thief’s heart without the guts kind. The last result is often that the lamb is not eaten and a lot of trouble is caused, and by the way, the thunderous you also dragged down this unkind, unjust and unclear muddy water.
Fourth, please leave out the rough men
Of course, in the man Today, with very little flavor, you may have a bit of a special fetish to the point of tasting the stinky ones as flavor as well. The actual man with a hot tempered personality is really a weak man who can’t be cured of the disease. Because they can’t reason and their minds are not logical, they are so weak that they have to use violence against everything. If you think that’s what manliness is, then you can really physically act that absolute good taste.
Rough men generally never stand up for themselves on the street, but prefer to commit murder at home, without asking their opponents where they come from, but they insist on abiding by the rules of the jungle, regardless of whether your wife and children are 5’8″ or 5’5″. At that time, even if you want to divorce, you also have to carry a masochistic hat in order to smoothly resolve. The actual fact is that this kind of man is not going to be a good idea.