Husband’s flaws should be viewed in two ways, there are no absolute flaws and strengths in the world.
1. Husbands are for love, not for anger.
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2. When your husband wants to eat an apple, he immediately washes it.
The experience proves that the result of pushing and pushing is not only hurtful but also consumes time and energy to finish washing the apples.
3. When ordering food, say exactly what you want to eat. The first thing you need to do is to make sure that you have a good idea of what you want to eat.
4. Never say break up or divorce when you fight, so you don’t have to get down afterwards.
5. Try not to make gifts out of food so that you don’t forget about it after you eat it.
6. Try to be less angry and more tearful when you fight.
7. Make sure to remember your husband’s birthday (solar and lunar) and make sure you are the first to say happy birthday to him.
8. Get into the habit of smiling as soon as you see your husband, especially when you come home from work and open the door.
9. Imagine yourself as the wife of a protector when you need your husband to accompany you and he can’t, and tell him: You’re busy, I can do it.
10. Pay attention to the feminine characteristics when you are soft.
11. Deliberately kiss him and tuck him in when he is half asleep.
12. Pretend to admire him when he brags about himself and act hopeful for a happy life ahead.
13. When you watch TV or a DVD and see a story where the married life is miserable, think of a time when your husband was good to you, call him if you are not around, or if you are around, cry on him for a while and say, let’s not do that, okay?
14. Act extra excited after your husband makes a pass at you, and say, “Honey, you’re the best to me!” For encouragement.
15. Occasionally talk to your husband in an offhand tone about something like a male colleague who wanted to invite you to coffee when he first arrived and you refused because you wanted to buy him a t-shirt.
16. Since you have chosen to spend your life with him, don’t fantasize about changing him, the only person you can change is yourself. The only thing that can change is yourself. Education is futile, probation is feasible. If it still doesn’t work, prepare a way back before you fall out with him.
17. When a man is working and studying and thinking, don’t try to get your husband’s attention to come to you. The only thing you can do at this point is to give him quiet space. You can go and refill his cup of water that is almost dry, or go and make a pot of pig’s feet and silver ear soup, and when he finishes his work, drink a bowl of it by the sporadic light outside the window, he will feel especially warm.
18. Find something good for you to do when you’re bored, and it doesn’t matter if it costs more money. Remember not to choose to talk to men, once the red herring is out of the way, the best result is that you are often caught in the dilemma of going or not going on a date.
19. If I’m wrong, after a fight, and see him still deadpan, I’ll play cute, play pathetic, play elf mouse boy, play crayon boy, play cherry boy, in short, just deadpan to him. This psychological trick is tried and true! If I’m right and he’s wrong, I’ll put on a stepmother face and give him some chances to talk, and he’ll apologize to me very sincerely, so sincerely that I can’t keep my face ……
20.Use his money to buy clothes and cosmetics. In his eyes at least you are better than the top at every age. And this is easy to do if you are willing to groom. Men are happy to pay for the beauty of their wives. In fact, really good men are often quite willing to spend money on their beloved women because it’s his share of joy.
In his eyes, women look the loveliest when they spend his money, like angry flowers, extraordinarily delicate, and men feel satisfied and proud of this, and feel their own value and the meaning of what they earn.