Many lovers who step into a marital home will feel uncomfortable and feel that there is no more sweetness in the relationship. This psychological gap will make some lovers deliberately create some nonsensical events to prove that the other party still cares in the end do not care about themselves. In fact, such suspicion and practice will affect the psychological health of both sides. And it will make the other party resent such behavior. So, what are the most taboo unreasonable behaviors in marriage?
1. Misunderstandings that play on issues:
Grabbing a little The most important thing is that you can’t let go of the smallest things and magnify them infinitely, looking for something to fight about. This is the reason why he wants to be unreasonable, because he usually feels the position of the relationship is unstable and wants the other party to determine his position and value.
2. Intentional misunderstanding:
It is clear that the incident is very The other side has to imagine some of his understanding out of thin air, and these understandings are borderline, distorted, and he confirms that it is the truth, making people laugh and cry, angry and hateful, and some bad-tempered people don’t bother to put up with it, and may not pay attention to the other side from now on. So, using this way to test the status and value in the lovers, is very risky and unnecessary. Get along with each other, there are misunderstandings to say clearly, if these misunderstandings are not detrimental to the interests of both sides, and there is no deception, why not settle the matter and have to give birth to some trouble? Just to see if the other party values you or not care about you?
3. Misunderstandings based on subjective assumptions:
Some lovers create misunderstandings based on their own subjective assumptions. The fact is that the company’s business is not a good one, but a good one. In fact, it’s just a matter of their own thinking, and must be the other party to give him a statement, said he did not agree. Such a person is unbelievable. The reason for this is that he wants the other party to give him to rule out his doubts, or he feels that there are some factors against him, and the reason may be that he is afraid of losing the other party and wants to keep the other party tightly tied to his heart to feel at ease.