What does marriage and family really represent and why do we need it? In addition to reproduction, we need to draw positive energy from it and get spiritual warmth to become stronger inside.
1. The crisis of the external situation breeds the security and spiritual abundance that love faith brings.
A statistic by Japanese scholars shows that after the earthquake, tsunami, and nuclear plant contamination in Japan this year, the marriage rate and the number of people going to marriage agencies for counseling have increased, a significant increase over the past. This is because, in a comfortable and relaxed environment, people will not lack happiness as long as they are financially satisfied and can secure a certain level of material needs. So it doesn’t matter if one lives alone, it may even be more relaxed and free.
But now there is a catastrophe, and both the natural and social environments are full of all kinds of unknown possibilities for change.
In the midst of a life full of uncertainties, the power of the individual suddenly becomes small and insignificant, and human beings feel a deep sense of anxiety and fear about the future, longing for spiritual warmth and dependence.
2. Marriage and family are not only a continuation of the bloodline, but also a haven of warmth and affection.
In China, as in other parts of the world, inflation is having an increasingly profound impact on career work, family income, and even daily life. The economy is in the doldrums, life is stressful, and people have to put on masks before they go out and play various roles in all corners of society. Many people associate the current disasters around the world with the Mayan prophecy of 2012, and the apprehension of the coming doomsday may also come from an instinctive desire to be protected by family members and loved ones.
This is a time when people are living their lives with the same purpose and coming together out of a common need. The reason for this is that we have a lot of hope, and we are brave and persistent, and our lives are no longer full of holes, because we have a trust, and we want to do everything we can to bring warmth to each other, and we feel the beauty of being together, even if it is just a smile. The energy that people have is reawakened in this moment. Although invisible, this spiritual affirmation is inspiring, reflecting the infinite energy of personal values, small but not negligible – enough to support a whole and healthy person and family.
This is why, even with a highly developed civilization of natural sciences, human societies still need emotional life, compatible partners, and marriages and families. In addition to continuing the bloodline, we need warmth, we need to find ourselves.
4 Things Women Easily Say That Make Marriage Play Out
Whenever a man wants to be called useless, especially in front of the woman he loves, he wants to be affirmed by the other side. It’s just a pity that some women like to compare their men with others, not the office so-and-so married a rich husband or someone who bought a luxury house and a famous car.
Independent or stupid, AA marriages double the cheating rate
Under the influence of the AA trend, many post-80s men and women have started to carry out AA to the end: when they go out to eat, AA settles the bill; when they fall in love, AA shares the bill; when they get married, AA shares the cost; even when they get married, they are still an AA couple, and they share the money with each other! This is the independent life that many modern women boast: I earn my own money and spend it myself, I don’t take advantage of men.
A prescription for stopping the marriage itch when marriage hits a low point
Marriage is a lifelong endeavor. If you feel the odd itch coming on in your marriage, will you reach out and scratch furiously, or will you be at peace and let the dry heat settle? The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on the right equipment.