Today’s mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are after the sixties encounter after the eighties, the two generations grew up in a different environment, the world view of life will be different, our daughters-in-law how to get along with the mother-in-law?
1. The first meeting: the first impression has an important place in interpersonal communication.
1. The first time I met my mother-in-law, I had to pay attention to the three diligent: mouth diligent, eyes diligent, hands diligent, to put it bluntly is polite, eyesight, but also has to look very diligent, so no girl in-laws do not like, the most taboo first meeting to play Missy model, in fact, the mother-in-law in the eyes of the heart can be.
2. Negotiations before the wedding: before the wedding, both parents will generally have a meal, touching the wedding, the wedding ceremony this thing is best discussed in advance with the husband, so that the husband and his parents communicate a similar, dinner, you the daughter-in-law to show a great deal, a word: “Listen to the mother-in-law’s opinion, you say how to do! ” Such a stance can often make things simpler for you afterwards, and there are times when you don’t have to be too serious in exchange for a happy life.
3. After pregnancy: Most mothers-in-law are very much looking forward to their daughter-in-law’s pregnancy, which is passed on by blood. After pregnancy, a smart daughter-in-law should ask her son to give her mother-in-law a call, and then the daughter-in-law should personally call her mother and tell her. “Mom, with a child you have to work hard again, we try to make you worry less!” Such words are very flattering to the mother-in-law.
4. During the menstrual period: It is best for the mother to serve during the menstrual period, which will minimize conflicts, if the mother’s conditions do not allow, only the mother-in-law to come, the daughter-in-law should pay attention, do not think that people should come, must remember that the mother-in-law to help, you should try to understand the hard work of the elderly, more encouragement to the elderly, there are many conflicts between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are generated in this month, so be sure to
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5. Mother-in-law’s birthday: I have always felt that most mothers-in-law are very kind, it’s just that sometimes we don’t deal with the problem, which leads to complications. Remembering your mother-in-law’s birthday and taking the initiative to celebrate it for her can make your mother-in-law more understanding of her daughter-in-law and get twice the result with half the effort!