Best friends to lovers is a very common situation in life, and as the saying goes, once you’re friends, twice you’re acquainted, three times you become friends, and over time you become a couple, which seems to be a watery thing to do. But good friends to lovers is also risky, whether to take this step, you still need to think clearly.
1. It’s hard to go back to being simple friends once you’re separated in the future
It’s very reassuring to always have a friend by your side who is there for you on both sides of the fence. The relationship of a friend is simple, but has an irreplaceable and powerful power in life. Once you get out of that step, the future can be full of variables. Someday if you break up, you could end up not even being friends.
2. Losing a good friend because of it
It has to be said that Lovers’ relationships are much more fragile than friendships, and if you pierce that layer with your best friend, it means you have one less good friend in your life, too. In contrast, maybe being a good friend for life is something that is even harder to replace.
3. Losing someone to talk to
You used to be able to The first thing you can do is to talk to him about everything, even the secrets of your worries that are difficult to talk about to others, and you can confide in him without fear. The actual fact is that you will find that you can’t talk to him as freely as before in many ways once you become a lover. I don’t know if it’s good or bad that the best friend who could listen to your secrets is gone.
4. There’s no one to advise you when you’re stuck in a relationship anymore
In the past, when you were stuck in love, as a good friend he could give you advice and comfort your broken heart. The same is true when you are in a relationship, but when the same situation arises, you can no longer also let him support you, if you are used to rely on each other before, you must feel especially helpless at this time.
5. You realize after holding hands that the disappointment is much greater than the hope
When you’re friends you think there’s a lot to like about each other, and being together is full of freshness and sweetness. But over time, the real life of his little by little reality is exposed to you, you may find that the original other party is not as good as you thought, the relationship will inevitably produce feelings of disappointment.
6. Your best friend knows everything about you, even the most unpleasant past
Are you ready to fall in love with someone who knows everything about you? He knows that you have had several boyfriends in the past, knows your little secrets and bad habits that you hide from people, and even includes many of your unpleasant past experiences …… as a friend he may be able to accept all of these, but as a lover, and with such a person you are confident that you will be happy?