It is a well-known fact that fidelity is a fundamental principle of marriage. But can two people who put on a ring and walk hand in hand into a marriage mean that they are faithful to each other, to their marriage, and to their family? This question doesn’t need to be answered, just look at the facts, NO. So, sometimes, a ring is just an embellishment of the depth of their relationship, not a proof.
Believe that marriage can beat long distance, and that two people are really less lonely when they are bound to each other? The first thing to think about before making a lifetime commitment is whether you really have the heart to spend your life with your significant other. There is perhaps more loneliness that a loveless couple needs to bear than a loving lover, and as long as they can know and appreciate each other, the ceremony doesn’t seem so important.
A ring equals a certain kind of proof
“Do you want to start with get engaged first? This is what many parents suggest to their children who are in a committed relationship. Why? Maybe because they want a sense of entrapment.
“I don’t know. As children, there is usually some confusion. We will know a lot about the meaning of marriage, but engagement?
“Aren’t you afraid he’ll run away? Or will he be happy that you’re gone and no one will care about him for the next two years? When you hear your parents say this, how should you answer? Most people tend to be silent to such sarcasm-like questions.
“I’ve seen so many interns ditch their girlfriends one by one during their internship, so be careful! The senior nurse practitioner was lying on the treatment bed, describing exactly what she saw in the hospital. The senior nurse practitioner was lying on the treatment bed, describing exactly what she had seen in the hospital. Similar words of caution were heard from both family and friends or from some of the people she encountered in her life.
“So what, I’m rammed, just find another man. Young kids or people who are confident in themselves or comfortable with their relationships usually shrug at this question.
Take it too seriously at times like this and you’ll get laughed at instead. For those of us who are still young, whatever we say is always met with a few words from adults: deny it because you’re young, or you’ll understand it when you get to an age. Is this really true? After this stage or at a certain age, will it dawn on us?
Does age matter
NO. Age, here, is talking about It’s mental age or spiritual age, not just physical age. In relationships, inferences based on purely physical age are going to lead to less-than-correct conclusions.
“But my friends and relatives are very concerned, and it will prevent each other from cheating. It may be that everyone cares about us like we are caring for our own children, and it seems like there are several more parents caring for you.
“And that way when I meet a cute guy like Brad Pitt in Finland, I can pick up my engagement ring and warn him that I’m engaged and tell him to go away. Would you have that kind of confidence? Or, would you think “He’s got my ring on, I’ve got his ring on, we finally belong to each other.
Key points to having a faithful partner
Your heart is full of Doubt, what do we do when we have insecurities about each other? That is whether you need to find some fresh and exciting new things to the bedroom to keep your partner from betrayal. Men and women have reneged on their initial vows not just because of the tedium, but because of a number of other factors.
1. Are you listening? Maybe you don’t realize it, and your partner has the feeling that you simply can’t listen to him or her. Please pay attention to whether you often say: “I’m busy.” “Can you stay for a while?” You should always set aside a period of time for your partner to be uninterrupted, even if it’s the same old story, and you should listen patiently through it. Simply listening is the best gift to intimacy. Don’t ignore its power.
2. Do you still have touch? Almost everyone needs to be hugged and touched by someone. If you only have skin-to-skin contact when making love, then you are sending the message that you don’t care about your partner anymore. Both you and your partner will feel as if there is a lack of touch between you.
3. Are you putting others before yourself? This includes treating your mother. If you really want your partner to feel loved by you, then put them first and think of them in every way.
4. Do you tend to get down in the dumps? Some people always look down and depressed, most often suffering from depression, as if all happiness is far away from them. Such people tend to isolate themselves from others, and it is all caused by them. You will also make your partner feel lonely by doing so. People who suffer from depression can now change their mood with treatment.
5. Are you being too demanding? Being demanding is different from being annoyed. Irritation happens when your partner forgets what you have delivered. When you are too demanding, you blame everything, dress sense, TV shows, music, and even your friends in general. No one likes to be around people who make them feel bad about themselves. So, stop all the complaining and actively make up for the bad effects caused.
If you have this or that above, you are giving the other person a reason to find fulfillment elsewhere. Why are you testing him/her to see if he/she keeps the vows?
A relationship needs to be sustained by each other’s hearts
A relationship needs to be sustained by each other’s hearts
A relationship is a mysterious and wonderful thing. The most important thing is to make sure that you have a good understanding of the relationship. From out of school, each other may be relatively actual will be less and less year by year. It is inevitable that time is shortened. For life, for career, for the future, we are fighting. At the same time, we ignore the closest pillow. This estrangement comes from the heart of the estrangement, rather than some kind of material as a medium to prove. People who will cheat will cheat after marriage as usual, and people who will be faithful will maintain their faithfulness when they are not married.
Engagement is just a rite of passage, and like marriage, it’s a certain stage in a relationship, but it doesn’t mean that after that stage we become more loving, or more loyal, or change our attitudes toward each other.
People who are engaged still have to break their engagement if they decide to cheat and fall in love with someone else, and people who are not engaged still have to know how to reject someone else (or resist the urge to go after another man) if they decide to stay faithful.
The ring and the other person’s heart are two different things. Because we love each other, we put on rings for each other, which is a proof of the exclusivity of love, and a proof that we want to guard each other’s feelings. A ring, is not a symbol of affection, and even less a symbol of loyalty. So, don’t get the mutual causality between the two wrong.