As the saying goes, a man after a woman is a layer of mountains, a woman after a man is a layer of veils, now society is an open civilized society, so if a girl has her heart set on a man, she can also take the initiative to show love to a man, yo. Because women chasing men across the veil, as long as the gently ruffle such a veil, then a good romance will begin. So girls in the end can not take the initiative to confess there, what methods can improve the success rate? Let’s take a look at it together!
Can a woman take the initiative to confess her love or not?
There are some girls who are not afraid to confess, but are unwilling to do so.
They often hear people say that women can’t be too active, or they will spoil men and make them think you are humble.
In fact, we often say that women can not be too active, in no way means that women can not confess to men, boldly say their own ideas; but in the other side of the rejection, the woman also time and time again to chase, look at the man’s face to act, such behavior, will spoil the man, let him think you are very low.
The reason why people express their love is because they want the other side to understand their heart and let him love you, too. Since you can’t make him understand with your actions, why not express your heart and let the other side understand clearly?
The party that took the initiative to confess did not show how humble it was, and the party that accepted the confession had nothing to show for it. It’s not as hard as you think, really.
10 Tips to Increase Success Rate
1. Love requires bravery.
Both girls and boys, love is bold, love is not wrong, and love needs to be brave.
2. You can take a euphemistic approach.
When a girl is chasing a guy, there is a veil between them. The boy is very sensitive to love, even if you smile at him, he will think you like him. So, you can take a euphemistic way to express your love.
3. Show your love through various ways.
You can leave a message on QQ, you can express your heart through WeChat, or you can call each other directly to tell each other.
4. If you are rejected, pull out in time.
The hearts of men are very cold. Love is love, and if you don’t love you, you won’t love for the rest of your life. So if you are rejected, remember to pull away then and there and don’t get caught up in it.
5. If the other party has an ambiguous attitude, you must be highly alert.
If you confess, the other party’s attitude is ambiguous, you must be careful, such a man, very scheming, not crisp and clear, to observe and guard more.
6. Those who love you will be the first to accept you.
If the other party accepts your love at the first time, without any delay or consideration, then be bold and go out.
7. The success of the confession is predetermined
Whether the location is a romantic restaurant or under a bridge, whether the token is a car rose or a text card, whether the means is subtle and twisted or straightforward, it will not have much impact on the outcome of the confession.
In reality, we see that even if some men kneel down and beg, women may ignore them, and some men have candles under the dormitory building, covered with rose petals, and the other side refuses as usual. The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you want to do.
8. Since you are timid, you should choose a place where no one is around
In fact, not all confessions have to be made in the presence of people, and if the other party agrees, you will be embarrassed if you refuse. In contrast, since your heart only wants to say to him, why not find a place where no one is, quietly pour out your love, or really dare not, why not simply send a text message to him. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
9. Confession is a serious matter
Friends around you may give you tips to confess when you are drunk, when people are more bold, and once the other party refuses, you can say you were confused; others say it is better to confess on April Fool’s Day, and if it is refused, say The company’s main goal is to save some face.
Both approaches are frankly unwise and tend to make the other person think that your confession was just a casual joke, or even that you are not serious about your relationship. The same goes for smart men who will effortlessly reject you: sorry, you were really drunk at the time! After that, no matter how much you try to explain, he uses this as a reason to make you look very passive.
A confession is a serious matter, and you can be indifferent in your heart, but you should at least present a very serious attitude.
10. There is no need to force him to say “yes” or “no.”
The intention of confession is more to express your love for him than to force him to say a yes or no result. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. If two people get into a standoff, it will in turn leave him no choice.
A smart woman will give a man plenty of time to think about it before the other person decides: you may not know me very well before, so you don’t have to rush to reply, and if you can, why don’t we go out for a while and decide when you’ve thought it over.
A smart woman will hint everything to understand why she chose to fall in love with him, what about him fascinates her, and then speculate on his concerns from his tone of voice. The woman should try to remove the other person’s worries and doubts in the following days to make him feel that falling in love with her is a good thing to do.
In this way, the other party will naturally become disturbed and his attitude towards you will change. The whole situation, the woman once again completely Hold.