Women to be married are always excited and thrilled, and in this atmosphere of being surrounded by happiness, it is often easy to forget the most important thing, has the husband-to-be passed the inspection? Hardware and software are qualified? The relevant various, to be married women, you have considered clearly? This is a lifetime of happiness!
Private money is a sensitive word, most women do not allow their men to hide private money, fearing that he will take private money to support a mistress, a second wife. The dictionary has the following explanation of private room: “Private room: in the old days, the extended family system, brothers living together, called their respective rooms for ‘private room’.” The Northern History – Cui Ang’s biography: “A money and a foot of silk, not into the private room, luck and bad have to, gather to share.” It also refers to one’s private savings. The first fold of “Goddess Nun’er”: “And I said that I two mouths save private money”. The first of these is a new one.
Generally speaking, private money is those properties that are not known to each other in the family, with a certain amount, different from pocket money. So men hiding private money in the end is good or bad? Is it worth marrying or not?
Satisfying personal hobbies
Some hobbies of men are not always recognized by women. Women’s recognition, especially certain women who have become wives, do not understand and simply veto. As long as the man has money, generally do not care much about how much their women spend, some men will be proud of this, as long as she can feel happy and happy, the man will choose to shut up in due course not to interfere. Women are the opposite, her love is often everything personally, sometimes only by their own preferences imposed on others, and men’s real hobbies are often ignored or prohibited by women. So, men choose to save their private money to meet their personal hobbies and indulge in their own happiness, which is also a way for men to relax, and some things men do not need to share with women.
Comment: He knows how to respect and humble women, and is a man to rely on. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Taking care of your family’s needs
A good man with a sense of responsibility is also must be the kind of man who has the ability and habit of taking care of his own family. This includes, in addition to the wife and children, of course, parents and siblings, who are all equally important in the eyes of men. The better the man is, the more considerate he will be of his family members, which is a concrete expression of his personal ability.
But in-law relationships have been a problem since ancient times, so some men will use this aspect of saving private money to quietly deal with some of the problems and needs of their parents’ family, so that both sides can be balanced and their ears can be clear.
This of course is also a helplessness, originally love each other family is also part of the love of men and women, but the reality is always because of love and difficult for love.
Comments: This kind of man is a family-oriented man, and everything he does is for his family, a man worthy of a lifetime commitment.
For friendships
There was once a very unmanly man who said
There was once a very unmanly man who said something like: “Friends like hands and feet, women like clothes”, and this is a “classic” man, but the result must be naked and naked, the so-called friends followed a laugh, only he knows if he is cold.
No one can deny that we can’t live alone and without help while taking responsibility, just like women need girlfriends, men need someone to have a drink with them at certain special moments, even if it’s just silence.
In life, men who don’t have friends must be disillusioned, whether in their careers or in their hearts, and women who don’t let their men have friends must be unhappy, whether in love or in marriage.
Comment: Whether in modern or ancient times, there is a saying that is true, that is, “money can make the ghost push the mill”. If a man is out without money to take out expenses, then his network of relationships will not work. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Surprise your wife and kids
There are many men in your life who do this The majority of their income is given to their wives, and the small portion that is left behind includes, of course, happy surprises for their wives and children.
Even if love comes and goes, even if it doesn’t last forever, we never think there is no true love in the world, no good man’s side of the shoulders and chest, even if it just comes and goes, it is enough for us to regain happiness in self-reflection.
A man’s private money can also become a piece of clothing accessories for his wife, as long as you do not complain about expensive or picky suppression, will also become a toy food for children, fatherly love always seems generous and warm at some point. A lot of men in a lot of private money is saved with reason, women do not have to be so vulnerable and unconfident, the day may be smooth.
Comment: He is a man who knows how to be romantic, he has only his wife and children at heart, and in the small part that is left privately, it is only for his family.
Drunk in Desire
Some men’s private money is certainly
Some men’s private money is also used to buy sex, or the reason why he saves his private money is to get drunk in the so-called “tender land”.
I saw someone leave a comment saying “Men never say no to a new love, so having an affair is a common occurrence”. The woman’s mouth, that is an emotional life of the unlucky, because the man’s fault you are also following the return.
Comment: men this use of private money, the woman at home is the most should “Purge”, the way is not a big fuss, but will use their man’s money to feed themselves and their children first, if you still do not want to use, he will be used in other women. This kind of man is felt not to marry, or later must be because of the private money interest disputes, marriage or even therefore to end badly.
Editor’s Note: The reason why many people want to talk about private money is because behind the scenes there are private feelings that cannot be told to the spouse. The reason why many people want to talk about it is because they can’t talk about it with their spouses. Roughly speaking, the objects of this “private love” can be divided into three categories: family and friends, lovers, and themselves.
The modern world is more open, with both men and women on double pay, and everyone can arrange their money wisely. If friction and contradiction arise on the use of money, do not leave it unsaid in advance and create suspicion in each other’s psyche. After all, people are different, men and women can not not quarrel with each other, should communicate well with each other. If men and women trust each other and understand each other, I think there is no such thing as saving private money. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.