It is said that men are very purposeful, especially macho ones. So, what is his motive hidden behind every detail of his date with you? Please take a look at these dating details with me to see his real purpose!
Dating you 2 or 3 days in advance
This is a sincere start, showing that he had plans to date you early on. At the very least, it also shows that he has considerable social manners.
A casual date on the same day
This man may just be momentarily
This man may just be lonely for a while, and if you happen to be lonely too, and also don’t mind the result of dry wood on fire, then go on the date.
He says he wants to bring his best friend, and he wants you to do the same
If this is the case, it depends on the man’s personality: if the man is the honest and mute type, it means he’s not sure about dating alone yet, so he wants to bring an airbag cushion for each other; if he’s cheerful and social, it’s highly likely that this date is just a small social gathering he’s arranged, or that he wants to help introduce his buddy to someone.
He specified that you bring one of your female friends
Don’t even think about it, people are just using you as a springboard to meet your sisters, it’s up to you to be generous or not.
Cafes, free parks
Pick a date at a place like this
Restaurants, movie theaters, art galleries
Dating in such
The fact that the date is in a traditional dating setting means that he values the date and wants to spend more time with you and get to know each other better.
Nightclubs, KTV
First dates in these The lights are purely for you as a playmate, and it’s just about time for everyone to get high together.
His house, your house, and the hotel
are all straightforward places If he opens his mouth and wants to go to these places with you, either he’s being flirty or he thinks you’re a posh girl.
Let you go to his house
A horny and stingy man who thinks All women should be fucked by him if they have a meal with him.
Nothing more
It’s clear that you’re not getting laid, and you’re not going to have any “nonstop” feelings for you in the future.
It’s clear that you don’t have a relationship, and you won’t have any “unrequited desire” for you in the future.
Texting or calling to see if you’re home
Still have some hope for you. There is a glimmer of hope, a little feeling but not really sure, or just a polite greeting out of courtesy. In short, there is not much potential for growth.
Sending you home and then turning around and not following up
This is something a man who is polite but doesn’t feel anything for you would do.
He said he wanted to come up to your house
It was polite to hold back until It’s a lot better than a one-night stand when you only show your purpose at the end. So it’s your choice whether to have sex or not: if you do, there’s a 30% chance you’ll continue dating, a 50% chance you’ll become friends and sex partners, and a 20% chance you’ll both pretend the next day that nothing happened.
Wait until you get home and immediately text and call you
Congratulations. This man did the right thing from the beginning of the date to the end of the date. Not only did he show 100% respect for you, but he also showed 100% affection for you. This is most likely the beginning of a great love, so make your own decision whether to accept it or not.