Psychological analysis suggests that a romantic relationship is generally determined through four stages: orientation, emotional exploration, emotional communication and stable relationship.
Orientation is the process of looking for someone who is in the middle of the night, and there are many lovely people. The first thing you need to do is to take a look at the person you are looking for. The company’s main goal is to provide a comprehensive range of products and services to the market.
But when you wear shoes on your feet, only you know if they are comfortable or not, and choosing a partner is similar to choosing shoes.
The first time I saw a person with a pre-determined direction, I decided it was the right person, but I didn’t have to swear at the beginning that I wouldn’t marry him.
So the second phase begins, emotional exploration. The first step is to understand each other’s interests, personality traits, life direction, values, family health history, educational background, plans for the future, biggest dreams in life, whether they are dinky or not, whether they are not married, whether they are good at listening to others, how they usually deal with conflicts when they arise, basic ideas about money, definition of happiness, and even whether their sexuality is avant-garde or conservative. If you don’t have a basic understanding of these issues, you will put the cart before the horse and re-explore them at a later stage, but if you have already established a relationship or marriage, you will suddenly realize and say, “So this is what you are!” It’s bad, because it may affect innocent children and family members, and it may disintegrate years of relationships.
The third stage is the emotional exchange, that is, after exploring each other to confirm that the other person is a better match for the relationship, but even if the best person does not have electricity, it is not good enough, there must be a willingness to interact with each other, simply put, the possibility of love. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Many people like to confide in their romantic history to their preferred partner at this stage. Remember, don’t describe in detail how much you loved someone else in the past, how painful the breakup was, how much you lost, the more detailed you describe the more passive you will be in the future, your partner will care because he/she loves you, his/her reason will accept it, but the emotions will suffer, so why bother? The necessary honesty is possible, simply say that the relationship has been a few, the approximate degree of interaction and the reasons for the breakup will be fine. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
After the third stage of emotional communication, the mutual feelings have deepened to a certain level, then it is time to start a stable relationship, which is the fourth stage. In this stage, it is common to introduce the person you like to your relatives and friends to integrate them into your social circle, and in some places there is a custom of engagement. But in any case, the important and memorable thing for both parties is the “confession” often said in the movie, what kind of confession to get the other party’s heartfelt nod? The main idea is to be sincere, which is the cornerstone of a future relationship.
If in the first three stages, both parties can still withdraw unconditionally, then in the fourth stage, there is relative stability, a relationship is established, and loyalty to the relationship is a matter of course. If you have entered the fourth stage and are still hesitant or see a difference, you can only say that the first three stages of homework is not done, or are dating someone who is not worth dating.
With all this theory, it brings back memories. The first time I met my husband, I was in a relationship with him, and I often read each other’s articles, which touched my heart. The first time I saw you, I was able to get back to the house I was renting, and I had a rough meal that I made, and then I went out for a walk.
Then the baby was born, life remained calm, and then went through moving, buying and renovating, and then moving again, as if the old married couple had been married for years, with the pulsating love of growing old with their children. I think the reason why these years of married life happy and quiet, and the long time we went through the orientation, emotional exploration and emotional communication is inseparable, although not meet, but we both clearly know each other’s character, personality, human attitude and other relatively essential things.
We don’t see each other’s looks, height, or weight, and we don’t know each other’s income, position, or possessions, and those are not precisely the things we are most concerned about.