On July 23, the reporter interviewed more than 30 random people on the streets of Chengdu about the reaction of street couples’ quarrel types. The most mature type, the “random gun type” and “cottage robbery type” most people avoid. The types of street fights are very different due to factors such as personality and degree of conflict, some of which even have onlookers exclaiming, “My buddies and I are stunned.
The most thunderous quarrel – the fragrant type
On July 20, a couple staged a double naked quarrel on the streets of Dongguan’s Qifeng Road. Witnesses said the couple slowly walked to the middle of the road when they quarreled, oblivious to the traffic around them. With the quarrel heated, the man began to take off their own clothes, did not expect this move caused the woman’s great emotion, but followed the naked, naked. The two of them embraced each other and left shortly afterwards, not at all like they had just had a heated argument.
Netizens chortled, “Why did the hospital let them out? Why did they give up treatment?”
In the survey people said this type of quarrel is the most thunderous, but it can be categorized as a fragrant type of quarrel.
The most common type of quarrel – the “male-female doubles”, cold war type
There are the flirty type of quarrels, and there are also couples who tear their faces off and fight, a type that can be called “male-female doubles”. Last May, a couple of street fighting video was uploaded to the Internet. The video was shot for a couple in Jiangmen, Guangdong. The video was taken because the man suspected the woman of cheating, the woman denied it after the two sides began to argue. The two sides of the scolding each other do not give way, the scolding war then escalated. The “glasses man” to the “black woman” cursed a foul mouth, “black woman” insulted can not help themselves, with the hand slapped each other a slap. The “man in glasses” then returned the color, immediately back to fan the “black woman”. The “black woman” of the girl friend in the scene busy to relieve the siege, but to no avail. The two sides then tore into each other with all their strength and fought.
This type is also not uncommon, as some couples can’t control their tempers when they are angry and can’t get their anger out. Often one side of the hands, the other side is not willing to show weakness back to the old fist. Miss Wang said: “This kind of thing can not be said, originally hit the woman’s man most useless, but now there are many women, maybe the male also can not prevail. It is better for everyone to sit down and calm down.”
Lovers quarrel in the street, mostly causing distress to passersby. During a random interview, the reporter found that most people think the cold war type of quarrel is one of the most normal types of street quarrel, in addition, or a calm, mature way of handling people. Mr. Lee, a member of the public, said: “Couples in conflict on the street, the cold war can be said to be the most calm way to deal with it. In the cold war, both sides can sober up and sober down, and then talk about it afterwards, and avoid just starting a fight on the street.”
The most maddening fight – the “poor shake” type
In addition, there is also the most maddening type of quarrel for the public, namely the “poor shake” type. In the familiar Qiong Yao drama, there are some classic scenes that people can’t forget. The most popular one is the familiar “Listen to my explanation…” and “I won’t listen, I won’t listen…” . In the survey, most people only said the first type of sex was thunderous, but the “poor shake” type was the type they were most afraid to encounter while watching.
“I’ve seen couples like this before on Chunxi Road, and I was anxious to die before they finished arguing.” A 95-year-old girl told reporters, “Really, I was thinking of a slap to those two slap in the past, there is to say ‘listen to my explanation’ and ‘I do not listen’ time, what misunderstanding should be explained clearly. I wanted the woman to tell me what was going on, I went to help her explain. Next time I run into someone like that, I’ll duck as far away as I can.”
Most damaging quarrel – indiscriminate firing type, “cottage robbery type”
The other two types that people avoid are the “firing gun” and the “cottage robbery” types. . “The two types of couples are more deadly and hurt not each other but the people who persuade them. in June 2008, a woman was beaten by her boyfriend in the street on Nanjing’s Jingwu Road, and passers-by found a good intention to persuade him, resulting in a conflict with the man, and the two soon started to fight. The woman saw that her boyfriend had suffered a loss, and could not care less about just being scolded by him, and actually picked up a brick and smashed it at the passerby, seeing that the passerby was injured, and the couple fled the scene in a panic.
Miss Li said, “This couple is the kind of people who are particularly selfish, it is best to see them all hide far away, or be mistakenly injured you have no place to go.”
And the “cottage robbery type” party is actually a liar or robber, they are in order to rob the money, scheming, and even came up with a couple disguised as the victim, pretending to have an argument with them. The money will be taken away in a dignified way. At the beginning of last year, a woman working in the night shift of a unit in the Xiaocheng area of Nanjing was waiting for a bus at the Central Gate North Station after work when a man suddenly came up and pulled her and said, “Let’s talk. The woman pushed and shoved and shouted, and the man dragged her to a dimly lit place about ten meters away from the platform. The passing brother master saw his hand beckon for help, accompanied by two passengers to check the situation, the woman then shouted: “robbery”!
Civilian police officer Xiao Wang said, “When you see a suspected couple pulling in the street, it’s best to call 110 when you can’t tell.”
Civilian police officer Xiao Wang said, “When you see a suspected couple pulling in the street, it’s best to call 110 when you can’t tell.”
ALIGN:left;TEXT-INDENT:2em”>In addition to the above types of people who are “stunned”, there are also people who are not surprised by the “cursing type” and “life-threatening to see blood type “
Reporter’s Note: There are no couples who don’t fight. However, when quarreling, it is best not to completely forget about things and pay a little attention to the surrounding area to avoid hurting people and hurting themselves. The crowd of onlookers should also try to persuade, if there is danger, immediately call the police.
The Eight Points of Attention for Lovers’ Quarrels:
The Eight Points of Attention for Lovers’ Quarrels:
Fights are inevitable between couples and lovers, but there are things to be aware of when fighting, and here are the dos and don’ts of fighting.
The following things must be noted for quarrels:
< strong>1. Gentlemen move their mouths, not their hands
Some couples quarrel inevitably Pinnacle you to death, and even fists. So here is a reminder that when you quarrel, you must have the demeanor of a gentleman, otherwise it becomes a domestic violence, which will seriously affect the feelings of two people, and even illegal.
2. It is important to be decisive in a fight
In fact, a fight is a life
The fact is that if you feel that your life is a bit astringent and needs to be lubricated, or if you are holding something in your heart that you can’t get up, and if you don’t get along with your words or the smell of gunpowder, then you should have a fight, before it turns into a big fight, and then you should have a fight to get rid of the fire and get rid of the anger, and then life will return to its original trajectory.
3. Don’t be pushed to the point of no return
When you are fighting, feel free to fight. The quarrel, but the quarrel should not be aggressive and inconsiderate to each other. The man should show his open-mindedness, the woman should show her warmth, while quarreling while still standing in each other’s perspective, perhaps a little more thoughtful, a little less grumbling, give each other a step down, quarrel there are up and down, it becomes natural.
4. It’s not advisable to go over old scores in a fight
There are definitely reasons to fight, but
There is a principle of quarrelling, quarrelling on the matter is fine, quarrelling will be over, some of the old problems in the heart are not resolved by quarrelling, the best way is to forget, shelve or calmly communicate to solve, quarrelling is often emotional, can not be nothing to rehash old debts, otherwise it is to add fuel to the fire.
5. Quarrel in moderation
Quarrel is best to quarrel on the matter. The best way to get rid of the problem is to have a good time, but the principle is that it is better not to argue today and then come back tomorrow, endlessly, destroying emotions, ruining happiness, and not only solving the problem, but also constantly adding to it.
6. Quarrels cannot become cold wars
Quarrels between couples are often It is no reason, it looks like both sides have a point, and seem to feel that the other side does not have a point, so at such a time, on the one hand, point out the dissatisfaction of the other side, on the other hand, say their own heart’s grievances, facing the people who live together, do not need to worry too much, and do not need to deliberately hide, quarrel freely, after the quarrel to review what they usually do not do well, if the two are so, quarrel also played If both of them do so, the quarrel has played a real role in lubricating life and eliminating conflicts. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
7, quarrel can not blindly say break up
quarrel motion to Divorce or breakup, which is clearly a quarrel without professionalism. Why would you fight instead of going straight to court? It is because both sides feel that there are just some places that need to rub together, a quarrel may be good, the purpose of the quarrel is to find the original, then go on, so do not move to say break up. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
8, quarrel can not spill swear words
Do not laugh, couples quarrel The company’s main goal is to provide a comprehensive range of products and services to the public. The company’s main goal is to provide a comprehensive range of products and services to the public.