Love is not smooth sailing and there are always difficulties in between that lead to eventual loss of love, however, if one knows some of the laws of love, these problems will be significantly reduced. The first thing you need to do is to take a look at the four major misconceptions of love and don’t become a love loser.
Relationship dos and don’ts and misconceptions
If you love each other, you can have it all
Idolatry instills in us a lot of beautiful fantasies, and if you hold on to this fantasy and refuse to let go, you will not grow up, and if you have always revered the spiritual world, then the chances of getting hit are The chances of being trapped are greatly increased. Those girls who are used to avoiding reality and are not highly socialized are also prone to be part of this. Couples who say this usually have one thing in common – their relationship has been criticized by friends and family around them, so they use this phrase to cheer themselves and each other up. However, being in love is a necessary but not sufficient condition for intimacy. The idea that “love can replace everything” comes from the youthful days when love was big and the world was small. It may be more suitable for those who are only in love and not married.
Women are born to be pampered
You’re either a spoiled
Women don’t love men if they’re not bad
“The bad boy can inspire a girl’s primitive motherhood, so she can’t bear to give up this “stray child”. Her love, more is pity. There are also some good girls who have hidden rebellious ideas in their hearts that they dare not realize, while the bad boy can complete instead of her. Especially his unpredictable behavior, but also to meet the desire of her deviant. You can’t rule out the possibility that behind the “bad” you fall in love with him, there is a hidden good intention to turn him into a good person. There are indeed a very few lucky girls with kindness and tenderness to let the prodigal son back, while most girls are destined to fall into the trap of entanglement. Your efforts fail again and again, and your intentions are gnawed away again and again. So weigh your ability and tolerance for how long he can tolerate the blow when he tries your bottom line.
Love me enough to know my needs
When she was young When she was young, her mother knew all her needs, and it was the most beautiful time for her. When she found her other half, she felt the same kind of unconditional thoughtfulness she felt when she was young, and mistook the other person for the ideal parent. However, he only interpreted her needs according to his own. If there is an intersection, it is a mutual blessing; outside of the intersection is where there is a need for friction. This theory only applies in terms of what you already know about each other. If he is attentive, he will pay attention and care about your feelings. And for what he does not understand, it is your responsibility to tell him. Say what you have to say. There are some thoughts that you yourself may not know. He is not a god. If you don’t say it, who can know?