Obviously, women who think this way tend to have a strong sense of vanity, the so-called “husband is proud of his wife”; in addition, they tend to have a strong attachment mentality, the so-called “only the vine wrapped around the tree, where there is a tree wrapped around the vine. “. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Of course, there is nothing wrong with encouraging husbands to strive for excellence, but creating pressure that is not tailored to the actual situation can be counterproductive.
The unkempt
There are few women in China who do this, especially after having children and gradually entering middle age. The woman tends to have the following psychology: one is the “safe deposit box” mentality, thinking that the “revolution” has come to an end and that the horse can be released to the south, so dress casually and no longer pay attention to grooming. Second, the slack mentality. Is no longer “strict requirements for themselves”, everything is sloppy and sloppy, just get by. The love of beauty everyone has. Do you think such a woman can not let her husband down? Husband may not say, but the heart understands it. This is where the real danger lies.
The woman who doesn’t fix her face and is willing to be a yellow face is too careless.
Women who are suspicious often do so out of a lack of confidence in their marriage and a lack of confidence in themselves. The reason for this is that she is always worried about her husband’s emotional displacement or behavioral derailment; because of her own lack of confidence, she is afraid of being abandoned by her husband one day. The root cause of the lack of self-confidence is the lack of independence, is the lack of understanding of the nature of marriage. As for the arrogant wife is often frustrated husband, there are difficult to say, and directly affect the harmony of the couple. In a word: a suspicious and arrogant woman is pathetic.
Disregard for the dignity of the husband
You can be sarcastic about a man’s unattractive appearance, but you can never laugh at his incompetence. The ability to earn money as well as the ability to have sex are the two main aspects of a man’s dignity. The man who does not feel dignified will often give up on himself and feel inferior to himself. Therefore, the smart wife always try to maintain the dignity of her husband, through a variety of “fancy words” and “technical means” to motivate her husband to sail through the waves, to revive the masculine. In a word: women who do not know how to maintain the dignity of their husbands are too ignorant.
Some people describe women as a city’s landscape, so if there is no woman to compete with each other, how can the landscape be “bright”? The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. This excessive vanity often makes those who are not “wealthy” men produce mental tension, and even overwhelmed by this. In a word: the love of climbing good vanity woman is too “horrible”.
Thoughtfulness without sensitivity
Thoughtfulness without sensitivity is a common problem for those who consider themselves “wise wives”. Some wives complain about their husbands: they care for them and take good care of them, but they are still not satisfied. But she may not know that she consciously or unconsciously, consciously or unconsciously cold or derogatory to her husband’s friends and relatives, resulting in the husband’s resentment. The union between a man and a woman is not only an interaction between two people, but also involves the interaction of different social relationships (such as family and friends) between two people. Ignoring such social relationships often deepens the feeling of marital “siege” and breeds the desire to break out of it. In a word: women who are not considerate are pathetic.
Neglecting sex
Because of the influence of thousands of years of feudalism, most people in China talk about sex, especially women’s sexual desires are suppressed, and they are seen as “immodest” for initiating sex. “The first time I saw a woman, I thought she was a woman. In line with this, they also look at sex in marriage only as a kind of thing that has to be done in order to pass on the family name and have children. This deviation of sexual concept keeps them away from sexual pleasure and enjoyment, causing a de facto separation of sex and love. Modern marriage should be the harmonious unity of sex and love. A harmonious sex life not only helps the couple’s love deepen, but also helps the couple’s physical and mental health.
Lack of housewifely consciousness
Housewifely consciousness and housewifely competence are closely related, and both ultimately involve the question of how well women play their domestic roles, mainly referring to the role of wife and mother.
There is a saying: “To capture the heart of your husband, you must first capture his stomach. The first thing you need to do is to take care of your husband’s heart. The impact of women with poor housekeeping or domestic skills on marital and family life is self-evident. “Out of the hall, into the kitchen” should become a modern woman’s pursuit.