There is a chasm between friendship and love in a relationship between a man and a woman, and this chasm may be called “ambiguity”. This is perhaps called “ambiguity”. The ambiguous relationship between men and women is a very common thing, for men ambiguous to meet the inner vanity and satisfaction, will show their charming side, and women often play ambiguous because they have a good feeling for each other, but do not know how to confess. If you’re in an ambiguous relationship right now, consider the 5-point rule.
1. Don’t get too convinced about how much he likes you
Remember: If he plays ambiguous with you, he doesn’t like you enough. The man really like a person, from the eyes can be seen, he hates to bolt you, how will be cold and hot, suddenly into and out? Yes, like certainly have, always look at your eyes before he and you ambiguous. So, ambiguous to your man must not be sentimental, even if he often pull you out, every day text messages, phone calls, twitter, msn; even if the hug, kissed, on the bed, still does not mean anything, nothing. Don’t believe the good things men say.
2. Maybe you are also used to his attention
People have Inertia. For example, if a person calls you every day at 9pm and then stops calling 2 weeks later, you must have a hard time.
This is a particularly normal psychological effect. So, when you get used to him around you every day and suddenly he is far away from you, you are not happy about it and start thinking about him. Don’t believe you really like him that much, it’s just an inertia effect. Don’t think much about him, you should do what you do, after a few days to get used to it and it will be fine. And then he warmed up again what to do? The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
3.
If you’re feeling panicky, you can tell your best friend, you can write about it online, but you just don’t tell him. Why? Because the gesture of being a person must be beautiful, even if you lose, only you know, he has no chance to look down on you.
Yes, you’re going to say it again, who says women can’t be proactive? Think about my tragic experience it, are patting people’s shoulders to say that they like him, the results, refers to him, they may be laughing for a long time it. At that time, the young is not more ah. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
4, ignoring is the highest level
Hey, I can’t help it. Only to convince myself that I don’t like it. I’ve met a master, and I’ve looked at him n many times, but I can’t see what he means.
Two out of ten sentences he said were business, five and a half were hints, and two and a half were compliments. Then what, just quietly waiting for you to take the bait. Yes, I do not practice enough, when his face is 3cm away from me, I only hear my heartbeat. Day after day, ready to send the door when he said: we just work relationship. A pot of cold water poured to the bottom.
Then this unwillingness to meet and mull over every day. And then later? And then later see him and other women like this one to two ambiguous, completely relieved.
It turns out that you have nothing to be surprised about, he turned out to be just this point of trickery. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to its customers. And then what? The initiative is in my hands. To him if you want to care, do not want to care, just ignore. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
5. Active flirting with someone else? It’s better to have a good relationship
Don’t, don’t, there is a retribution for this kind of thing. It’s good to love someone well! Don’t do this unethical thing.
Ambiguity sounds hazy and beautiful, but in reality, it’s cruel in nature. That man may not love you enough, just take you as a spare tire, or ambiguous with you have other benefits, he can not let go of it. For men who like someone, there is nothing more reliable than saying so explicitly.
If he’s really interested in you and is just too embarrassed to confess, you might want to watch carefully for good reasons and include him in the developable range. If the ambiguity is due to other reasons, such as work convenience, mutual comfort and so on, or another good find someone to love, your tangled, your feelings, your unwillingness in his eyes is just a landscape.