If, hypothetically, the man you love who is making love to another MM behind your back and hasn’t offered to break up with you, then he has no choice but to desperately try to cover up, cover up again, lie, lie again. But no matter how seamlessly he does it, it will reveal traces. You don’t have to be a tiger to use a little wisdom to figure out if he’s really cheating on you ……
Cheating Phenomenon 1: Sudden increase in expenses
After cheating, in order to please the Izzy, eating candlelight dinners, sending roses and drinking coffee are necessary to show a man’s gentlemanly manners and romance. What do you mean by romance? It is to slowly waste the number on the credit card with a girl and let it change from more to less. This is a mandatory course for men in the love field, a small point, this small expense can not stand, which girls willing to romance with you? What makes people play a love game with you a married man who will not have an ending and will not have a name? The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
The man had to desperately save his private money in order to keep the fling. Previously, generously handed to the wife of the money now even if it will be given to her as much as possible, but how much reluctance there is in the heart? Only he knows. If a man does not have extra income, usually with various excuses, not to give his wife the salary in full; if there is extra income, the man will not be as stupid as before – not to leave all to his wife. Some men even go so far as to quit smoking and drinking.
Cheating Phenomenon 2: Frequent overtime
Men who have an affair To take time outside of work to be with his lover and experience the soulfulness and beauty of warmth and softness, naturally he can’t get home on time to be with his wife. The wife, of course, will call and text to interrogate the man about why he’s not home so late and who he’s with.
The man will usually reply with a big smile: “I’m working late.
At first, the wife painfully instructs: remember to eat the evening meal when working. However, with the number of overtime, the wife will be suspicious. The man will immediately make a face of aggression: I work so hard, overtime, but not for you and the children to live a better life? The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Most wives hear this from men and feel a sense of remorse, thinking they misunderstood their husbands.
The man saw his wife dispel her doubts about him and honestly went home to his wife a few times, coaxing her to be happy and continue to “work overtime” outside.
Cheating Phenomenon 3: Too much socializing
These days, a little bit The most important thing is that you have to be able to get the best out of your life. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Women, too, tend to like men who have the ability to entertain.
Such a man will most likely be able to earn enough money to provide material security for her and her children’s lives.
So the smart man will cloak himself in the garb of socializing and develop extramarital affairs outside in a dignified manner. When the wife began to resent every night he was out constantly socializing, the man justified than anyone else: you think I want to do so ah, and then to the great uncle – the wife’s own brother as an example, every day after work to go home, less than 1000 yuan a month, buy daily necessities are always looking for stall goods, eat scrimp and save, or not enough money for the children’s college expenses. Still not enough to save for the children’s college expenses, his wife scolded him every day is a yakuza. Do you want me to be that kind of man? The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
The wife heard, immediately no electricity, before hanging up the phone, but also have to tenderly urge the man: eat more vegetables, less alcohol.
The man closed the line, that happy, with a little wisdom to the wife’s heart to fix.
Cheating Phenomenon 4: Distracted
When you get home, you are distracted no matter what you do.
As the old saying goes, a man without secrets outside the home will be open to all phone calls and will not be distracted, let alone rude to his wife’s inquiries.
Cheating Phenomenon 5: A friend comes forward to prove he is innocent
When a man is out late or often late to be suspected by his wife, often his buddies will volunteer to come forward to set the record straight for him: that day, he was with us, sister-in-law, you absolutely rest assured that my big brother is not that kind of person, I can testify. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
The truth is, his buddies are all the same as him, and people say that things gather in groups, and that’s absolutely true. The most common trick is to put these friends out as shields to convince the wife that although he returns at night, he is definitely keeping his wife in line!
The above situations are not 100% proof that your husband is having an affair, but if he has all five of these phenomena, it means that your marriage is in a subhealthy state, and you, as a wife, should pay extra attention to how to eliminate the subhealthy state of your marriage. The first thing you need to do is to make sure that you have a good idea of what you are doing.