A woman’s search for a husband is both a simple matter and a more systematic project. To say its simple, just find a man who can live together, read its complex, the man who can live together and not just anyone can, from age, height, looks, education, work, income, ability, housing, personality, sexuality, hobbies, habits, people, the world, the economy, family …… have certain requirements . So, some girls meet, some girls always meet not. So, for single women, how to find a good husband –
One, lower your standards
Topix found a peculiar phenomenon that the lower the level the higher the standard set, and the higher the level the lower the standard set. In particular, women who simply have a passable face have the highest dreams, because society does give them too many opportunities and they have reason to expect. However many end up being met with infinite blows. The more women with strength, the less they think too highly of themselves and have no requirements for their male partners. What Tuopu said is: If you set a high goal, it means you are a person without strength, then lower it, so that it is in line with the actual situation. If you’re strong, you don’t set any standards for yourself, so of course you don’t have to lower them.
Two, give yourself a chance
And let’s not talk about how few social events we have. The first thing you need to do is to make sure that you have a good understanding of how to do it. In this modern world, opportunities are needed everywhere. “The first thing you need to do is to look back a thousand times before you pass by in this life; a thousand times before you pass by in this life, before you meet each other in this life; a thousand times before you meet each other, before you meet each other in this life.” When a boy takes the initiative to talk to you, give yourself a chance to get to know him before making a judgment. Because he has a good first impression of you and is expected to fall in love with you; but don’t expect him to love you how and what at this time, that’s impossible, unless he lies. So to give him too many obstacles at this time is to not give yourself a chance.
Three, Getting to Know Men
Men are certainly not perfect. And there’s the inferiority of men. Know what is common in men and what can be forgiven. Which cannot be forgiven. The man who beat women can not be forgiven, occasionally drunk can be forgiven; eat soft rice can not be forgiven, a moment of difficulty but have a strong career can be forgiven; gambling stick whoring friends can not be forgiven, eyes see beautiful women will glance at can be forgiven. No filial piety and no virtue can not be forgiven, occasionally do a bad thing to repent can be forgiven. Waste can not be forgiven, the prodigal son can be forgiven. Bad quality can not be forgiven, just a little lust can be forgiven. Men which are not lustful. As long as he can be good to you, put you in the first place, he is a good husband. The reason for this is that the man has no sense of responsibility. The man who tells a lie in good faith can be forgiven, but who can’t tell a lie once?
Fourth, smart up
Good men to please their wives, do not need a A good man does not need a servant who can only do work, a whore who just has a face, a fool who doesn’t know shit, a mother who just gives him help, a boss who gives him orders, or a slave who does what he is told. So: please put yourself in the right position, if you want to be his wife, then you are equal, you need to be together, to treat him with the attitude that you can go through life. So you need to be able to have an exchange of ideas, to be able to rely on each other emotionally, to be able to have a discussion on things, that is, to have a heart to heart, so that your life can be happy. No man does not like intelligent women, the best word to evaluate a woman is “show outside the wise”. Your intelligence should at least match his, so that you can talk to each other and talk to each other. This is necessary. It’s almost like being a little honey. Use your intelligence to conquer him.
V. Take action
When you meet such a good man When you meet such a good man, be like that song: sister sister stand up, grab him, don’t let him go away. Pay attention to create opportunities to let him find your good, do not be too confession, this time must respect themselves, so that the effect is good, is to bring enough back, so that he fell into your gentle trap, in fact, many women in this area of experience or very rich. I’m talking about taking all sorts of ways (except sleeping) to catch him, never just want to wait for him to chase you. “Silly and so on is useless”, must take some hidden means, the United States of a survey report illustrates: between men and women is completely by the female initiative, the woman looked after the man, and then take some hints, the male side to have the opportunity, although the performance of the male side like the first time to see her in love with her, but if she There is no such meaning, he had to leave, or the man saw her for the first time are in her plans. The woman must take action.