In the love jungle, who has not encountered cheating? Now through five details, teach you to recognize the cheating man.
Detail 1: Cell phone
1. When the phone rings, he carefully checks the caller’s number, and when he answers, he doesn’t allow the other party to say anything more and quickly tells them, “I’ll call you later.”
2. When answering the phone, he grunts and grumbles while secretly pressing the volume control switch (usually the earpiece volume control switch is located on the side of the phone, which is very easy to adjust when answering a call. This small action is stealthy, but it’s not hard to find if you pay attention).
3. When he is dating you, he usually turns his phone off; you call him and often find him turning it off for no reason.
4. Refuses to answer calls with a highly unnatural expression telling you, “A very troublesome client.”
5. Whether driving or walking alongside you on the road, he used to answer the phone with the ear that was farther away from you.
6. Some calls he answers in front of you in a big way, and some calls he runs to another room or a little distance away from you to answer.
The above five items, if you can be right three or more (including three), you can almost 100% conclude that this is a cheating man, the first three of which are the most critical evidence.
Detail two: dating judgment
1, dating you, received a phone call to say that the company has something to do or the boss shouted overtime, rushed away.
2. Late for a date on a major or sensitive holiday such as Valentine’s Day, or leave very early with an excuse, or even simply stand you up.
3. Refusing to plan distant dates, such as when you ask him if he’s free next Sunday after this week’s date and he says thoughtfully, “We’ll see about that then.”
4. He’s not moving around. He can’t be reached by phone, twitter, or MSN, and when he shows up again, he says he’s in a bad mood.
5. Can’t be with you after work or on weekends, and every date ends almost at the same time.
6. He asks for a date without booking you in advance, and then suddenly asks for a date with you; however, he always has a reason to refuse when you come out of nowhere.
The above six items may occur occasionally because you are busy at work or have a friend’s appointment, but they are more suspicious if they occur repeatedly.
The last two appear more often than not, and the man you’re dating is probably not only cheating on you, but is married or has a regular live-in partner.
Detail 3: Go to his home and explore infinitely
1. Look at the whole thing – a single man’s home that is too clean can be a primary suspect, especially if even the quilts and sheets are as neat and tidy as new and have toys or pretty little vases of flowers or the like.
But if he’s a doctor or a virgin by profession, the suspicion is discounted because they’re probably just clean men, not gorgeous women. If the home is too simply furnished, even with a poor change of clothes, then he probably has another home.
2. Check the key – Generally speaking, if a woman visits often, he will pay more attention to the texture of the bed and the color and quality of the bedding.
3. Look at the key – the bathroom must be the key inspection position. Single men rarely place a trash can next to the toilet in the bathroom. You may also find among them sanitary pads, bath flowers, shower gel (according to the survey, men rarely buy shower gel, unless it is a unit benefit). The number of ladies’ cleaning products, slippers, towels and toothbrushes on the wash rack speaks volumes, and you can see it at a glance just by going to the bathroom.
If your relationship is going well, you may want to get his home directions, make sure he is home, kill him downstairs as fast as you can, call and say you happened to be passing by and wanted to come up and take a look, this will prevent him from having plenty of time to destroy incriminating evidence, and prevent him from getting his feet wet. Reminder: with the girlfriend to go with, more pair of examination eyes, less peach sent to the door misunderstanding.
Detail 4: Judging by his circle
1. His good colleagues or good friends a foot in two boats or a confusing relationship between men and women, you say behind his back that the man is shameless, he does not think so, or even lose his temper.
2. He hangs out with his colleagues or friends, and occasionally someone jokes with him using a girl’s name, and he is uncharacteristically angry or makes a dark wink.
3. When introducing you to his circle, he says your name directly without saying how you are related to him.
You can pick relatively nice, solid-hearted people among his friends as your main targets. Occasionally, you can gently confide your hidden concerns: “Yesterday a friend of mine said he saw him watching a movie with another girl at the cinema, how do you think that’s possible?” “I often dream that he is with someone else, are dreams the opposite of reality?”
If the person simply tells you not to worry and lists his many good qualities, you can put your heart in your stomach for now. If the person’s words flicker and they don’t want to answer, there’s a problem.
It’s easier to get the truth from his colleagues, friends’ girlfriends or wives, to go with the flow of the relationship, to lend a keen radar to catch the information that hits your door, and not to pry too much so as not to trigger a woman’s curiosity and artificially tarnish his reputation.
Detail 5: Look at the line to know the man
1. Suddenly become love to look in the mirror and complain that there is nothing to wear in the closet.
2. You used to buy clothes for him, but now he suddenly brings back some new clothes of dubious origin, explaining that they were given to him by a client, handed out at a meeting, or just passing by a mall.
3. The style of dressing has changed significantly, especially the quality of underwear, which used to be worn when the underwear was torn, but now is not. He has even changed his underwear overnight to brand new and sexy styles.
4.The appearance of nothing has changed, but small personal items such as socks, towels, ties, briefcases, razors, drinking glasses, etc. have been “refreshed” in a short period of time.
5. One or two days a week, he takes extra care to dress himself. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to its customers. The reason is as follows: working late, spending time with clients, meeting old classmates.
The premise of a man’s qualitative change in line of sight is that you are already very familiar with him and know his personality and past dress preferences. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
It’s understandable that women fall in love and “transform” to their liking, and this will be evident in a significant number of men. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.