What is the difference between women who have boyfriends and those who don’t? A Japanese website published an article for us to inventory the 5 major differences between the two. Let’s see where you belong!
1. Listeners and preachers
When he talks to you about his troubles, he doesn’t want you to tell him what to do; mostly he just wants you to listen to him. If you don’t understand this and put on a condescending look and start reasoning, he should not come back to you next time. At this time, just look at him and nod slightly to show understanding and agreement. He will also think, “If it were her, she would understand me.
2.Unhurried and impatient
Men, unlike women, don’t take texting as seriously. The first thing you need to do is to make sure that you have a good understanding of what you are doing. Therefore, even if he is slow to text back, don’t think too much about it, just be patient. The women who have got a boyfriend trust him enough not to be anxious because of a text message. On the contrary, women who can’t get a boyfriend feel that the other party is a little slow to return the text message, they fall into anxiety and start to rush. So, first of all, learn to trust each other with an inclusive heart.
3. The spendthrift and the big spender.
Most women who get boyfriends spend their salaries on self-investment, such as going to beauty salons and developing hobbies. Elegant women who are well equipped inside and out will attract more men. On the contrary, women who can’t get boyfriends attend dinner parties frequently in order to escape loneliness alone, and most of them spend their money on momentary pleasures. It’s hard to earn money, so why not make yourself happy like the former.
4. Self-improvement and time-wasting pie.
Most women who get boyfriends choose to read on their days off. The most important thing is that you can learn a lot about relationships by reading books. It is easier to get a boyfriend if you are a smart, intelligent and attractive woman. The women who can’t get a boyfriend often spend their rare days off playing games to kill time. In the long run, the gap between the two will become bigger and bigger. The first thing you need to do is to try and read at home to develop an intellectual temperament.
5. The open-hearted and the verbally abusive.
No matter how good a woman is, she should have experienced being dumped too. However, resentment towards him and talking badly about him everywhere will only make men stay away from you. So, if you are unfortunate enough to be dumped, you should learn to accept it and then learn from your experience to face the next relationship. It is also a great opportunity for women to become better.
What do you think when you look at these 5 big differences? Women who can make boyfriends are really good at it. If you have one, change it. Start changing today.