Many times, the men we get along with are not necessarily our first love, and certainly, we may not be a man’s first girlfriend. If we are all first love, perhaps many people will rejoice, because the first love is the purest, without any impurities, not mixed with any interests in the relationship, but the first love, we often do not cherish, because we do not understand love. When we choose a man, he has experienced several relationships, then you should not be depressed, because, after some emotional man, more will cherish around you, they know better how to deal with the problems that arise in love, because his ex-girlfriend has taught him a lot. So, while we have a good man, we should know that what we are enjoying is the fruit of the previous girl.
Perhaps, in every man’s heart, there is someone who is unforgettable. At this time, don’t be jealous and don’t try to spoil it, because, everyone is supposed to have that one good time in their life. Just as we, too, may be missed by another man.
Allow your man to have a shadow in his heart, but limit it to just a shadow. There is no need to worry about whether this shadow will affect your present. Believe that the memories are good, and know that your tomorrow will be even better. Believe that a man who truly loves you will not let his favorite you cry a single tear.
So, how many girlfriends are happiest to be a man’s first girlfriend? Take a look.
First first love?
First love is beautiful and pure, but not pure love can replace everything. He knew nothing, he wrote several love letters when he pursued you, but he was afraid to go buy flowers, afraid to call you from under your dormitory building, considered for two days when he first held your hand, hesitated for half an hour. The first time I said I love you when my face was red, my body was trembling. The first time I kissed you, I was afraid to bump you, ask you first whether you agree. This is the first love, he is not in the feelings, he does not know more about women, do not know what you want. You don’t know what to do when you’re together, he’ll just look at you and giggle. You ask him who his favorite person is, he will not lie and say it is his mother. You asked him if he would marry you in the future, and he froze for a moment and said he hadn’t thought about it.
If, however, you just want to experience a pure love, then a man in first love will make you feel happy. If, however, you want to enter into marriage with a man, then don’t choose the man of your first love.
A second girlfriend?
He sends you flowers and invites you to dinner at the dorm. He said I love you, then took your hand and ran to the middle of the school fountain, then picked you up and spun you around as he caught up with you. The moment you say yes to him, he kisses you. This is how men behave when they are in a second relationship. He says his girlfriend should have to do her boyfriend’s laundry and bring him water to wipe his sweat while he plays ball. You ask him who his favorite person is, and he thinks about it for a moment and says, it’s you. You ask, will we have a future? He says, would you like to go to my hometown? Occasionally, he thinks of his first love, and he says, I was too young to understand anything at that time.
A man who has been in a relationship has basically read women and has his own understanding of their preferences, etc. However, men are looking for a sense of novelty. A man in his second relationship knows what he wants, but he doesn’t want to tie himself up so quickly yet, and he doesn’t think about marriage, because he feels like he’s not married yet, and he wants to see the next part.
A third girlfriend?
He said, “I don’t have anything, but I have a heart that loves you. Believe me, we will be happy. So you shared a small room in a strange city to save on rent, with a modest bathroom and kitchen. Every morning you get up earlier than him and occasionally make him breakfast, separate rides to work, and in the evening, you buy the food on the way back and go back to do it for him. He said, “I’m happiest with you. He occasionally washed dishes, occasionally wipe the floor, occasionally wash laundry. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. He said, when we have saved enough money, we will get married. His mother came over and washed your sheets and covers, saying that the house should be kept neat and tidy to live comfortably. You went back to his hometown with him, and he said, my dad doesn’t think you’re as pretty as my first girlfriend.
After two relationships, a man already has the intention to start a family, he will offer to get married, he will offer to take you home to meet his parents. He will save his money for you, and he promises to give you happiness. As men feel that the next one will be the best, so may be in the third relationship of the man’s economy is not very good, but he will work hard for your small home. So a man who has gone through two relationships is basically considered a good candidate for marriage.
A fourth girlfriend?
He said, “I think we’ll get along. He stayed overnight that night when he dropped you off. He’s very caring, very loving, and he always knows what women need, want to hear, and like. He surprised you before you even asked for it. He will buy you snacks, will make you a snack, you look at the same thing more than three eyes, and the next day he will buy you. He bought a house with your name on it. When his mother saw you, she said, “Daughter, are not young, get married! You felt happy and accepted his diamond ring. One day, you went through his computer and saw a letter he wrote to his ex-girlfriend about your story, and then said: These are the things I want to do for you the most, but I didn’t understand or have the conditions before.
After three relationships, a man already has some financial means, and he can give you what you need to live. But men at this stage may have stopped focusing on feelings after a few relationships and just choose a marriage partner, so be wary of whether men are getting married for the sake of getting married.
Men and women who are in love for the first time and demanding perfection in their first love are hard to marry
There is an interesting social phenomenon in our lives that the majority of people eventually choose to marry someone who is not their first love, why is that? In fact, that is the first love does not know how to love. The first-time lovers tend to be less considerate of each other’s feelings, rarely stand in each other’s shoes, or are more egotistical in their composition.