Many women are “uncle-controlled” and feel they should find a mature and stable man to love themselves, but nowadays sibling love is all the rage, so finding a small man to love yourself is a benefit or a disadvantage. In fact, there are inexhaustible benefits of having a brother to love yourself is a kind of happiness. The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you want to do.
For a long time, men’s and women’s perceptions of mate selection have mirrored each other. Men always love to look down and look, looking for a daughter-in-law on the young and beautiful. The woman, on the other hand, is looking forward to finding a mature man who is older than she is as a husband.
But unknowingly, the traditional concept of a relationship between a man who is older and a woman who is younger has been broken, and many men are looking for older women to be their wives! This is what we usually call “sibling love”. This is what we usually call “sibling love”. Celebrity love has always been a joy to everyone, but what about real life? The most important thing is that it is not just a matter of time.
In fact, from the beginning, sibling love was pushed into the realm of morality, believing that this type of relationship is not morally acceptable. But I think that the sister-brother relationship does not belong to the moral category, just now people for love or for the view of things than before there is a great change of view. The reason for the existence of sibling relationships is that they have their own unique benefits.
One: A sister needs a brother to love.
Women are born with motherhood, and in fact, motherhood cannot be narrowly understood as a mother to her children. Motherhood is innate and instinctive. The “motherly” shadow will also appear when treating one’s younger siblings. Some women are happy to find men younger than themselves as partners, because they find that they are more in love with their husbands who are younger than them. This is not because they have mixed other feelings in love, this is their natural genes to make. They are always willing to take care and give to what they love.
So find a husband who is younger, they are younger but still a piece of the family. The wife can confide in her “brother” for all her outside troubles and grievances. When the wives are older, they can be more tolerant of their husbands in times of trouble!
Two: What the brother needs is just a little bit of reason.
Men always like cute girls, but they don’t like to always cajole you, always take care of your emotions, and put their own aside. Men are more stressed, who do not want to come home at the end of a heavy day’s work and still face their wife’s little temper. What they need is just that little bit of rationality from their wives, when they are physically and mentally exhausted, their own wives can take care of their feelings more and not just make a mess of their own little tantrums.
So find an older wife who is rational but not too cute, and who doesn’t send up little tantrums and incomprehension when he needs a warm and welcoming hug the most. The man is always good at handling things big and small, plus a “big daughter-in-law” who understands that they are not too dependent on their husbands, so I’m sure family and social matters will be half the battle.
Three: the complementarity of the physical and the vital.
I believe we often see on the street, all the old ladies walking with their old grandfather. In fact, the life expectancy of men is relatively shorter than that of women, who do not want to lose the other half of their lives too early in their later years! Physiologically speaking, women’s sexual development is earlier cut longer, while men’s development is delayed. In the female 17-18 years old has matured and until 50-60 years old does not decline, while the male to 18-19 years old mature and until 40-50 years old does not decline. The female is 3-6 years older than the male is the best couple to live with.
Just as women don’t pamper themselves based on age, men don’t dominate because they are younger. As long as you have true love, age is not an issue. The important thing is how we look at them rationally too. Everyone needs true love, does this have anything to do with age? Even when we meet something that we can’t understand, we can’t immediately turn the other cheek. The same way that we couldn’t understand that the earth was round, but now we still think that’s the way it should be.