I’ve never denied being a feminist, and have been since I was a kid. Mostly because of my personality, when I was a child, I used to fight with boys from time to time, and I was often found at home by people. My mother always looked at me helplessly, and my father’s stick education was a failure. The company’s main goal is to provide a complete solution to the problem.
Never thought that men and women should be equal, and even men should let women have more, just because women are born soft and have the responsibility of giving birth, so why should women have to suffer a lot of sins? This is probably the unfairness of God. Anyway, I do not think it is fair to look at those women who please men, look at those women who only know how to cry, really can not go up and pull her courage to. However, the world always succumbs to tradition, most women still lose themselves, living in the world of men, and I do not know whether they are happy or unfortunate? Maybe people live differently, for me, if marriage makes me lose myself, then it’s better not to! I’ve always envied Sanso’s marriage, both dashing and mutually independent, marriage for her can only be growth, not attachment. This is the true essence of marriage!
So, should there be women’s rights in marriage or not? Take the nature of women like water, silly women are more likely to be happy. But, as society changes, is being too weak or too stupid to really achieve happiness? Looking at those so-called virtuous wives and mothers, waiting for men’s gifts with fear and trepidation every day, is this also a kind of happiness? Looking at magazines full of propaganda how women to please men’s arguments, looking at those women in order to please men and use a variety of tricks, really feel sad for them! Is marriage is used to please? I have always believed that if the status of men and women in marriage is not equal, then no happiness can be said. Men and women do not need to please each other, but mutual respect. This does not mean that you are afraid of your wife or man means that you are inferior, but represents a respect. And the idea of pleasing, will inevitably put you in a desperate situation. The more you care about something, or the more pleasing it is, the easier it is to lose, as the saying goes.
I don’t advocate feminism, but a little bit of it is necessary in a marriage. The company has been thinking that bad men are spoiled by women, for example, when you complain that he never does housework, think about it, is not usually you take care of everything? Does it make him into a big man? Another example, he often badmouthing you, often to your fists and feet, so why not take your courage, when he is violent to you and he fought it? As the saying goes, the weak are afraid of the strong, the strong are afraid of the lifeless! In the long run, men are not bad is not possible. Human nature originally has bad roots. The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you want to do.
Everything has its advantages and disadvantages. The feminine power mentioned here is not for you to do Wu Zetian, but to use it appropriately, both to make men a little afraid of you and to make them feel that he is not alone in the marriage. The woman’s right is not terrible, the terrible thing is to take the woman’s right as a shrew, smart women know how to use the woman’s right, the woman’s right into a pampered or self-sufficient way, this is so that men can not underestimate you, but also not for the marriage and forget all life!