The matter of bad relationships is not exclusive to women. It is the subject of all people. Women will encounter problems, men will encounter the same. What are the “hidden dangers” of men’s personalities that may cause them to be unhappy in their relationships? (This article is based on the Sun, Moon, and Ascendant)
Aries: Reckless
Aries is passionate in both genders and has a straightforward personality. Not much like to waste time on ambiguous unknown. For the Aries, procrastinating people without guts are not worthy of having love. So once an Aries man finds a girl he likes, he will often do his best to pursue her with great enthusiasm. However, not all girls are able to bear the Aries this “hot” enthusiasm. If the other side is a little less bold, it is likely to be Aries man scared to let him approach. And if you encounter a strong personality, and temporarily to the Aries man is not much good feeling of the basic house of the girl, the Aries man such a gesture but easy to let people on his antipathy. In short, it is not worth the loss.
The fox has something to say: Although a man should have a man’s aura, but you have to be polite even if you are a 24k pure man. The enthusiasm is not bad, but no manners will become reckless. It’s not appropriate to surprise a beautiful woman!
Taurus: Petty
Taurus is a very lazy sign. Change is the thing that Taurus hates the most. For Taurus, it is better to have everything in life in place at once. Taurus is very patient, and it doesn’t matter if the process is long as long as it allows him to make sure the outcome is good. He is afraid that things will go back and forth. This concept has created a cautious character of the golden calf. In order to ensure that the result is good, he usually enter the state will be very slow, he needs to constantly check, test, in case once found that things are not right, he can pull out in time. As a result, he often seems very petty until he gets confirmation from the golden calf. Both in terms of energy and money.
The fox has something to say: It’s human nature to be self-protective, and there’s nothing wrong with that. But as a man, some of the scene things to do or to do. At least pretend a little, not so obvious ah pro!
Gemini: The Finest
While wind signs are generally rational in their thinking, they are also rational in their thinking. The most important thing is that it is not a problem. Gemini, who is said to have “two heads”, has a unique skill of being able to think rationally while indulging his emotions. For the twins, the usual rational represents the mature self, while the emotional is a capricious catharsis, is his restraint too long indulgence, or just called rest. But for those around him, his behavior of speaking sensibly while being emotional is simply completely incomprehensible, and can even make people wonder if he is not in his right mind.
The fox has something to say: don’t always think how hard you put up with it and move around looking for excuses to play gloomy. Really mature people will not move to put on a face to others to see. The actual fact is, the girl is scared away from the despondent is yourself.
Cancer: something to say
Moon Guardian Cancer Personality Introverted, sensitive and shy. Although the Cancer man has the dominance of the basic house, he does not have the confidence of a fire sign from the inside out. He is afraid that if he makes a clear request, he will be rejected by the other party, which may seem trivial to other signs, but often turns out to be hurtful to Cancer. Therefore, the Cancer man seldom take the initiative to say “I ask you how to do”, he hopes that the other party can read from his eyes and body language hints to understand his request, so that both sides can avoid embarrassment. And the truth is, his girlfriend looked at him with a cloudy face and was at a loss as to what was going on.
The fox has something to say: Your so-called “clear” hints are never as clear as you think they are. The most important thing is that you have to be able to get a good idea of what you are doing.
Leo: Arrogance
Unlike the Cancer, the Lion doesn’t like to hide their heart. On the contrary, Leo wants every opinion and attitude he expresses to be received and accepted by his girlfriend smoothly. The lion will always try to make his attitude clear enough, no matter what kind of expression he chooses. But the problem with the lion man is that he is often too confident in his own views, although he attaches great importance to whether his girlfriend can receive his views, but often ignore his girlfriend’s feedback. It seems to him that communication is a matter of him giving instructions and his girlfriend is only responsible for accepting and executing them. This often makes the girlfriend feel like she is not respected by him at all.
The fox has something to say: Even the emperor has to make personal visits to understand the people’s situation, let alone that it’s your girlfriend. No matter how right you think you are, you should listen to your girlfriend out of courtesy.
Virgo: Picky
Virgo men are thoughtful, attentive, and take care of people. And most Virgo men pay attention to the instrument, often leaving a good impression of clean and tidy, courteous. But Virgo’s common problem is that, when you see what you think is “not good enough”, you can’t help but ask for “correction”. In Virgo’s view, in addition to loving someone, caring for her, taking care of her, helping her, reminding her, making her better is also a very important part. Therefore, perhaps he can remain silent to outsiders, but out of concern for his girlfriend and sense of responsibility, he really can not say. But as the person he’s correcting, it sounds like he can’t be satisfied no matter what, and it’s just discouraging as hell.
The fox has something to say: No one wants to be criticized all the time. If you really can’t “escape responsibility” to pick your battles, at least make up the parts that should be praised separately. Don’t end up with a “but” after the praise.
Libra: Doesn’t know how to say no
The Libra man has always been known for his “three no’s”
. The “three no’s” are known. Many Libra men do not take the initiative, do not refuse, and are not responsible for the attitude of feelings, so that many girls who are enchanted because of their neat appearance and gentlemanly demeanor, deeply broken heart. Although the scale personality is not very active, but the girl they like, the Libra man will still have something to say. The so-called “three not”, in fact, because of the gentle character of the scale, thoughtful and poised, many times it is easy to let the girl misunderstand the scale man is in pursuit of their own. The scales are not good at refusing, so they have to drag on ambiguously, hoping that their negative attitude can make the other side understand. The result is instead dragging and dragging, somehow the two people instead established a couple relationship. But in reality he didn’t have that in mind.
The fox has something to say: things are not going to work themselves out, don’t always think that a delay might be good. Always do not take a stand, the misunderstanding will only get deeper. And you yourself are not really able to settle down, so why waste time.
Scorpio: Jealous
Just as the Scorpio woman wants to marry the The Scorpion man also wants to be the hero of the world in his girlfriend’s eyes. The actual fact is that you will be able to get a good deal on your own, and you’ll be able to get a good deal on your own. The scorpion man basically can’t listen to his girlfriend’s mouth any other than his strong words, serious even girlfriend praise other people can not. If occasionally okay, in case the girlfriend’s personality is slow to say more, the scorpion male will not be able to help but suspect that the girlfriend is not like others. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
The fox has something to say: Don’t think that jealousy is a sign of love and the other person should forgive you or even be moved to tears. Love is not an excuse for you to hurt others. Instead of tormenting each other, it is better to admit early that you are just careful and love to be jealous.
Sagittarius: Bad Distance
Sagittarius’ optimism, brashness, and sense of humor have created a new breed of Sagittarius. The Sagittarius’ optimism, brashness and sense of humor have created a Sagittarius that is not only well liked and has many friends, but also seems to have better luck with peach blossoms than other signs. Whether it’s a fling or a girl who’s a “buddy”, there’s usually no shortage of female friends around a Sagittarius man. But Sagittarius kind of “within the four seas are brothers” character, do friends very well, do boyfriend will often bring their own trouble. Because the Sagittarius man always seems to grasp the distance between female friends and girlfriends, often too attentive to female friends, and girlfriends instead thrown aside. The result, of course, is that it is easy to make your girlfriend feel insecure.
The fox has something to say: Unless you think it doesn’t matter if you don’t have a girlfriend, you should be careful to keep your distance from other girls after you have one. It’s not a matter of freedom or not, it’s respect.
Capricorn: Inferiority complex
Saturn is on top, and Capricorn has nothing but an innate sense of crisis and responsibility. The most important thing is that they are not only a group of people with an innate sense of crisis and responsibility, but they are also a group of people who naturally lack self-confidence. Unlike their counterparts in Cancer, few Capricorns will take an aggressive stance to conceal their low self-esteem. The pragmatism of the earth sign makes Capricorn convinced that resources and strength is the capital of self-confidence. But there will always be some girls who are willing to do whatever it takes for love. Meet such a girl, Capricorn will always have a kind of “she will sooner or later think about leaving me, better not start” snail mentality. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
The fox has something to say: love is never a sensible thing. And since someone loves you, it means she thinks you are worth her love. If you have the energy to reject someone, you might as well work hard to make yourself worthy of them!
AQUARIUS: A big conversation
Aquarius is a sign that separates the mind from the body. The body is a sign that divides the mind and the body very clearly. Although freedom is very important to the Aquarian, the old worldly Aquarius knows that one cannot escape from reality completely. Therefore, he does not resist the urge to behave like a “normal” person if necessary. But the freedom of thought is sacred, and Aquarius refuses to set any limits on his own thoughts. Therefore, no matter how usually seem to follow the rules of the Aquarius, once it comes to discussing ideas, ideas, his discussion of the scale of the large, often staggering. This is a very good way to get the most out of your life.
The fox has something to say: Even if you repeatedly emphasize that you are only “hypothetical,” not everyone in this world dares to make such bold assumptions. If you find it unacceptable, it’s best to restrain yourself and not irritate people.
Pisces: Anxiety Disorder
As the last sign of the zodiac, Pisces is more sophisticated than Aquarius. Pisces is more sophisticated than Aquarius. They can perfectly navigate the parallel worlds of brain and reality at the same time, living in the real world while relying on the brain to replenish the blood in the brain. But the water sign of sensitivity and change in the house of non-resistance to stress, resulting in Pisces encounter stress is easy to fall into anxiety, and more or less will eventually give birth to the symptoms of paranoia out. Once he enters this state, the reality of the pressure will be infinitely magnified by him, and then huge negative emotions are vented to the closest people. Pisces is already very good at influencing other people’s emotions, and this turns into two people being purposelessly anxious together, with no one to figure out how to fix it.
The fox has something to say: If you’ve fallen into negativity and can’t climb out, don’t take your anxiety out on the only person who can pull you to shore. Are things going to be okay if someone is drowning in the water with you?