The world’s men come in all shapes and sizes, and there are plenty of strong men. The actual fact is that there are many men in the world who have the heart of a thief, but there are also many men in the world who have the courage to look at their human weaknesses and situations in life.
I.
A Korean movie, “My Sassy Girlfriend,” performed the voice of many men, but if the girlfriend became the wife, it would be “The Lion’s Roar of the River. The company’s main goal is to provide a comprehensive range of products and services to the public. How dare they mess around with women outside? Meet the dream girl, at most is also a secret look, borrow a tiger gall to him and then take half a catty of two pot, he may not be able to put a loud fart. This kind of man can be uneasy about anything, but only to have an affair, to raise a mistress of the matter, he absolutely dare not. The old saying goes, “I am afraid of the inside.” Although there are grievances, but also dare not casually voice. Evil wife always has a reason for evil, perhaps she is tall and powerful, irresistible; perhaps she comes from a noble background, married poor people, can not be exceeded; perhaps she is powerful four-way, waving his hands in the clouds, do not dare to do …… anyway, the man can not afford to mess with such a strong “capital
II.
There are men who eat soft food, and that must be women who are too rich, there is no doubt about it. But usually rich women are more bossy and domineering, and the men who depend on her for food are also more weak and incompetent, without the slightest hair sovereignty at home. However, such men are generally handsome, smooth, good at reading people, know what kind of women are rich and lonely, know how to please them, even willing to fight willing to scold do not matter, as long as they can get material satisfaction, live their own free and happy days. In order to survive, they often think about the women they like and do not dare to take action, most of them will secretly lament their fate, for fear that once things are revealed, the source of their own life enjoyment, that is to their lives, so love in their hearts is too extravagant, empty heart of thieves without the courage of thieves. Of course, there are women complaining that: he ate my take my use of my, but also behind my back to steal someone. This is, after all, an individual case.
III.
Some people say that men are confident as heroes and inferior as bears. Although the metaphor is very indecent, but at least a response to a truth, that inferiority complex of men without courage. Women look ugly no one loves will be very low self-esteem, which is understandable. Men grow ugly a little also inferior of course also understandable, women grow ugly afraid to marry, men grow ugly afraid to marry a wife, are the same reason. This man usually only take a look at people secretly, do not dare to look at, nor dare to squint. They see the woman they love sometimes do not even dare to think about it, why? Afraid of being rejected to hurt self-esteem. The more inferior the man’s self-esteem, the stronger the fear of others to see their weakness. The more inferior the man loves to save face, he despises himself, more afraid that others also despise themselves. This kind of man sees his beloved woman where he dares to express?
Looking at it, most of the men who have the heart of a thief but not the guts are not rich, not powerful, not talented, not money, not status, not power, not dignity, not talent, not courage, always feel inferior in some way, not qualified to balance it, over time, the confidence ideal is worn away, only left to be dominated by the shell, although very reassuring, but also very sad.
Of course, we are not preaching that everyone should have a thief’s heart and courage, then the world would be a mess, but to live with status and dignity and courage, we must change our mindset, not to be a “thief”, to be a person with integrity, to love with confidence and courage, even if we don’t have any special skills, we should have ideals and ambitions, so that we can live with dignity. The first thing you need to do is to have a new mindset.