A man or woman who becomes emotionally involved with someone else outside of their marriage can be said to be cheating or having an affair. The average affair is often under the guise of “we’re in love,” but the two people’s intentions are not in sync, with one pressing for a new relationship and the other perhaps only getting sex.
The affair is not a legitimate relationship in the public perception, so the two people who have an affair are secretly in contact with each other, and often like to say some suggestive words, in the context of the situation, some words seem, full of romantic poetry, and wait until these words are drained by time. The two of them are often fond of saying suggestive things.
If you’re true to me, I’ll do anything for you!
This sentence, coming from a lover, has several meanings. One is that you are not sincere enough for me and I am not satisfied with what you have given. The second is that your request for my emotions is not justified because you yourself are not sincere. The third is that I give only if you give sincerely. But usually some lovers, hearing this from the other side, will think it is a promise to him that only if they are sincere, the other side will also give sincerely to themselves, even if they divorce and then marry him.
In the end, it turns out that the phrase is advanceable and retreatable. That is, you are required to pay more, and then it is at the critical time, take this to put you off: because you do not have full sincerity, then do not blame me retreat. The ambiguity of the lover saying this, and the sharp contrast of the cold ending, can make people feel that the affair is a sword that hurts people.
I’d love to go away with you and enjoy romance in a deserted place!
At the beginning of an affair, this phrase can easily capture the other person’s heart. When the relationship between lovers reaches a certain level, saying this phrase also tends to make the lovers experience warmth and romance. But there is a hint of a special meaning lurking in this phrase. That is, that there is actually no way out of our emotions, that trying to last or trying to really come together is just too romantic a vision to be realistic.
Because lovers, who are surviving in the dark and in the cracks, have no place to stand in the bright world and are afraid of the harshness of reality, they have this overly romantic vision and sense. If rational people are not tempted by extramarital affairs, only those who are restless and irrational will fall into extramarital affairs and finally return to normal life covered in wounds, either staying in hurt or destroyed reality never to return.
I never thought you’d be too selfish, what a disappointment to me!
People who blame each other for being selfish are often unfulfilled with selfishness themselves. Between lovers, selfishness and anti-selfishness cross-examination, often selfishness in the reverence. And truly emotional lovers, often give as happy, for each other to think more, this situation, in a happy marriage common. And extra-marital lovers, it is difficult to do. Because, extramarital love often pay will have a psychological barrier, and do not take the lover as a real lifelong dependence, so in the payment will be more trade-offs. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Limited giving is often the key to conflict between lovers. Because lovers are sometimes in it for the benefits, compounding this give-and-take trade-off mentality. This gain or loss of interest is often linked to whether or not there is emotion, which makes the love in an affair, a fishing lure, and makes the affair a shameful act.
I’ve given you everything, isn’t that enough?
Gambling between lovers outside of marriage is a frequent behavior. For example, the problem of jealousy, even if you do not really love each other, when the other person shows intimacy with other people of the opposite sex, you will often be jealous. Why? One is because the relationship between lovers outside of marriage, itself is a cheating, extremely sensitive to re-cheating. Secondly, because of the possessiveness, so that they feel the encroachment of privilege, so annoyed. In extramarital affairs, not really love, not really want to marry the other side of the party, cope with the other side, often do not directly express, say I love you, or commitment and people married thing, on the one hand, afraid of such commitments and confessions, so that they have no way back, said the truth, but also afraid of the conflict immediately intensified, to bring adverse consequences for themselves.
So, often, they take the middle road and use ambiguous words or alternative words to make the other person misunderstand the psychology and seek psychological balance. Through talking to many counselors, I have found that many people who fall for it attribute their eventual breakup to some objective reason. In fact, this is the effect of the lover’s cunning leading to the critical moment, not to drop the ball, not to intensify the conflict, and then to find opportunities so that you have nothing to say and would rather quit automatically.
Lovers have to talk about emotions, money is nothing!
There is a particularly interesting phenomenon, a pattern, where someone tells you when things are going wrong, it’s not about money, then nine times out of ten, it’s about money. To name a few, lovers talk to you about emotional issues, not money issues. Often it is not that they want to give more emotion to you, in front of you, do not begrudge money to pay. The intention of the other party is most likely for you to speak emotionally to her and to treat money like dirt when it comes to spending money on her. The kind of person who really cares about emotions and doesn’t care about money would never use such words to enlighten you, but rather do it themselves and say less, or do it without saying anything.
Women cheat men infatuation, men tend to put love first, will be generous to women in money, and even go to embezzlement, to pay this love debt. Of course, the last will not have good fruit to eat. The company’s main goal is to provide a good solution to the problem.