Girls are brought up with tutoring and social traditions that teach girls to stay reserved, how to learn to be a lady of the house, how to learn to hide their true feelings, and girls themselves generally believe that they should maintain a reserved demeanor. So, is it really a disadvantage for girls to take the initiative in relationships?
Being proactive is right
If he loves you, and you love him. But neither of you tell each other, this bond will be lost by your passivity. In the world of love, the heart is better than action, there is no initiative will lose this statement. There is always a person active, there is a person passive, active just on behalf of your pursuit of a way, the opportunity will be more. The first thing you need to do is to have the courage to say what you like, and then you should be bold enough to say it, and only if you say it can others enter your real world of emotions.
Don’t be overly reserved
Being overly reserved can mean Missing out on a marriage of your choice. If you are faced with a hesitant or reserved expression of affection, or even if you are afraid to express it boldly, you are likely to be preceded or preempted by other girls, so that you can only watch your favorite boy and her into the marriage overly reserved means lost opportunities, overly reserved may miss a marriage of your choice.
Giving Hints
The most subtle and technical aspect of a woman’s initiative is that she must both initiate and not make the man feel subjugated. That is, it is clear that the woman is taking the initiative, but also let the man feel that it is the man’s own initiative, is their own conquest of the woman. Not necessarily their own initiative to pursue, you can also let their own initiative into the other party initiative. As long as he also has a good feeling for you, as a boy will certainly take the initiative to fight, as long as you give him hints. The first thing you need to do is to get closer to him, communicate more with him, and then have certain actions that distinguish you from others in a better way, such as inviting him on your own birthday, or giving him a gift on his birthday, inviting him to dinner during the week or using some kind of reason for him to invite you to dinner, etc.
Don’t stalk
Women should not be like men every day The woman should not be like a man stalking every day, but like a martial arts master who rarely strikes, and once she does, she should have some quality. This quality refers to the process of romantic and beautiful, the most critical is to make the man’s heart deer in headlights. Don’t worry about women taking the initiative men don’t cherish, women take the initiative to do just to attract.