Sweet words and roses, I believe many people believe that this is the right way to open love. However, at that time, no matter how sensational the love is, life will always return to the ordinary, no more roses, sweet words are no longer so good, but it is a great blessing to eat with the same person every day.
One of the most popular scenes in film and television is the poor couple snuggling under a leaky house to keep warm, sharing the rock-hard buns as a delicacy. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Don’t underestimate the importance of eating. Married for life, for working people, it’s just two points of contact, home, work, on the road. When cooking is treated as a ritual, every day is highly anticipated.
During New Year’s Eve, the question “Why is the taste of New Year not as strong as it used to be” got a lot of attention. People started to miss the feeling of “wanting to eat”. The food was very poor, usually nothing more than rice crackers, millet rice, only on New Year’s Eve to satisfy the cravings, steamed rice cakes, steamed steamed buns are a luxury. Nowadays, there is a lot of money and love. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
When acquisition becomes easy, emotions will disappear. Because love requires rituals, just as women often need men’s words to promise love, just as roses, wine and chocolates …… in short supply on Valentine’s Day and Christmas are rituals, and love.
There is a love called “eating with you”
There is. For the average couple, cozily, calmly cooking and eating a meal, that’s love. Than expensive accessories, luxury shoes and bags, perhaps what women need most is this kind of good food and drink through the gut, go stomach, more heart.
Meals are always going to be eaten, so why not take advantage of this every day thing to learn how to love. Four suggestions to make your days smell strong.
Put down your phone at dinner
Staring at your phone for a long time. It hurts the eyes and alienates the relationship. If all intimacy can be built through cell phones and computers, why would couples need to live under the same roof? There is nothing important that must be sacrificed to gain access to dinner with your significant other, and if there is such a thing, the first thing to reflect on is whether you have arranged it properly, and whether this thing is worth such a huge investment of time and energy, rather than putting the cart before the horse.
Learn to praise each other’s cooking
Husband’s cooking may not be superb, or even crude. Not superb, even crude, maybe a chicken, he only cut eight pieces, a pot of porridge, can be cooked paste …… but this does not prevent you from praise. The praise is the tolerance, affirmation and appreciation of the other party’s effort, initiative and willingness to do something for you, expressing your own acceptance, and the emotion is built up precisely by interaction, and the food itself has little to do with the taste itself. And the return of this praise is that your partner understands your good intentions and knows that you give credit for the act, not simply for the meal itself.
Treat his stomach with your own cooking
From walking into the chilly morning light The first thing you need to do is to walk into the bustling vegetable market and pick out fresh ingredients, to wash them and lay them out on the cutting board waiting for the knife to cut them one by one, to throw them into the boiling hot frying pan and present them to the table with the steaming aroma of …… watching the fruits of your labor being shared by your beloved other half, the satisfaction is beyond words.
Cooking, you can take turns, you can do it together, or you can surprise each other. Love requires real giving. It is his stomach that is treated and his heart that is warmed.
twitter clever show of affection
Two pairs of chopsticks The two bowls of noodles, the noodle bowls with the lotus egg or the love type, how can such an elaborate preparation not be recorded with images? The most important thing is that you can take two pictures of yourself and upload them to your social media platform to show your happiness. This is a great way to show that you’ve got a good understanding of each other’s cooking skills (if they’re the chef), and on the other hand, it’s a great way to bond with each other and leave a sweet, memorable image.
The “Golden Key to a Happy Marriage” for Love Preservation
Share the humor of others
Couples learn to take pleasure in the humorous wisdom of others; you can go to a comedy show together, or you can stay at home and watch comedy movies that you enjoy with each other, and of course, listen to the funny things your friends are doing. This kind of pleasure, which you can get without any effort on your part, will allow you to spend a pleasant time with each other, relieve the stress and tension of the daytime work, and put you in a good mood to go to bed together. We suggest watching more romantic comedies together to get more advice on how to get along as a couple while having a good laugh.
Return to childhood games
Turn back to being naughty big kids once in a while. Get the most pristine and exciting joy from simple games. Take off the shiny suits and dazzling jewelry and have a competitive game with your partner, such as a water gun fight, fighting over a small toy, playing poker with sticky notes, etc. In a happy atmosphere, get rid of the day’s fatigue and worries, and give the green light for intimate behavior between the two of you. But note that the games are for fun, not for splitting hairs, and avoid those that create a tense atmosphere.
Learn to laugh at yourself appropriately
Don’t be afraid of being laughed at, instead. Your lover will see your humility and wisdom in your self-deprecation, and having this self-sacrificing spirit will make you more selfless and lovable in the eyes of the other person. Usually, women are more analytical with their words, have more humorous intelligence, and can create a relaxed and casual atmosphere with their words. And if men are aware of their pet peeves and laugh at themselves in front of their wives, I’m sure she’ll change her frown and smile with delight, and won’t that make everyone happy?
Remembering funny scenes
Funny scenes and funny stories are happy memories. The stories are all happy elements worth remembering. French psychologist and sociologist Doris Barzini once said that having joy and recalling happy scenes with your partner at a later time will make the marriage relationship last longer. This is because sharing past joys is a form of generosity, a willingness to give laughter to the other person, and a sign of love. This joy can stem from someone else’s joke, a playful moment between you, or a fun experience.
Play humor in a fight
Try to make a face when the other person is furious Remember, your intention is never to make fun of the other person, but to entertain yourself and lighten the mood. After all, using humor and showing humor is all about adding positive energy to your home, making yourself happy, and making the person you love happy.