Cheating is the nightmare of all women. And cheating and cheating are always linked together. The worse nightmare than this is that you have a man who has the guts to cheat and not the guts to admit it, and he invites the woman back to the door to ask you to give way, and the man is nestled out of sight. The company’s main goal is to provide a solution to the problem of the problem.
Almost all women hate cheating, and almost all men have a dream of cheating in their hearts. But here, a fair word must be said. The matter of cheating is not unique to men. According to statistics, the difference between the proportion of men and women who cheat is not very far, but of course, men and women cheat in different ways.
Men are creatures of desire, and they cheat more to vent their physical desires, so it is more common to see physical cheating. The woman is an emotional animal, they cheat more because of the lack of love, so see more psychological cheating. It is worth noting that if a woman sleeps with someone else, then her heart is also with someone else. And even if a man is sleeping with someone else, it doesn’t mean that he will be with someone else.
The man’s attitude towards cheating is that the red flag at home does not fall outside the colorful flag, no big deal, and the woman is as dedicated as ever. A derailment also out of the falsehood, the other even out of the derailment are very exclusive. In this regard, it can be seen that the woman whether cheating or not, the pursuit of the man’s true feelings. Even if the man has nothing, nothing to give her, as long as she thinks he is true to her, she will go with him and start from zero.
So men are listening to their lower bodies to guide them to cheat, women are listening to their hearts.
Classification of cheating
There are three types of cheating, first of all the first It is called physical cheating. Everyone should be well understood, is the body cheating, with others in bed. Physiological cheating is simply venting desire? Not at all moved? A lot of men’s physical cheating is a show, such as going to nightclubs and so on. The most important thing is that it is not just a physical indulgence, as they say, without any psychological fluctuations?
It’s just an excuse that any physical cheating carries with it a small amount of psychological cheating. The simplest way to look at it is that the moment a man has a relationship, the whole psyche for that woman is going to produce a good feeling, which is a moment of psychological cheating. And for women, physical cheating, are after the psychological cheating, once cheating, the heart can not come back.
If one were to sort out which is more unforgivable, physical or psychological cheating, there would be almost no surprise. Most men find physical cheating unforgivable, while most women find psychological cheating unforgivable.
How is psychological cheating defined? If you put it simply, it means that when a person falls in love with another person outside of the marriage, it is considered psychological cheating. Here is a moral issue, love someone for life? Perhaps in moral terms, theoretically speaking, yes. But in practice, we can see that very few people will love someone for life. In all fairness, love for life is not a one-sided issue, it takes timing and location to make it happen.
We will live out our long lives with the same person, but there will always be times when our hearts will inevitably let go. Then good people, a year or two no problem, ten or twenty years, there is no one who will make your heart flutter? The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a woman or a handsome man and think about it for a while.
But that doesn’t mean that cheating is an excusable act. Admiring a beautiful woman and pursuing possession of a beautiful woman are two different things. Although people will be controlled by their physical instincts, people are human because they hold reason and logic and know what they should do and what they should not do. If one does, one must have the courage to suffer the worst possible outcome.
What to do when a mistress comes to the door
Confronted with a call from The third party, who asked to meet to talk clearly, although sometimes it is really difficult to bear to make the loss of reason, bad words, etc., in the long run, or to considerately tell you, a few to keep calm mind! After all, you are about to cut off your old love and move on to a new life. The theory is this, if you are unlucky enough to meet a man who only has the guts to enjoy beauty without the courage to take the consequences, the woman he invites back finds you confronted and wants you to get out of the hall and make way for her, what should you do?
The mistress eats soft but not hard
Confronted with the mistress who calls The third party who asked to meet to talk clearly, although sometimes it is really difficult to bear to make the loss of reason, bad words, etc., in the long run, or to considerately tell you, a few to keep calm mind! After all, you are about to cut off the old love, welcome to the new life. The woman is usually angry in the face of the mistress most of the curses, if you change the perspective, calmly say: “I hope you can be together. to fulfill the relationship that destroyed your happiness. You may find it difficult to do, but there are two reasons why you should consider: one is that the mistress likes the feeling of robbery, others send her, she will not want it so much. Secondly, a few years later to see if you do make a real relationship work is also considered a virtuous thing.
Don’t go cross-referencing the past
It’s very hard! You absolutely can’t resist checking against the point in time when you DOUBLE each other. But advise you really don’t, it will only make you more sad and upset when you go back to your midnight dreams! Remember this has already happened, there’s no point in looking back on things any more, all you have to do now is move on!
No comparison between you and her
You are you, and She is her, and you don’t want to be her, so don’t bother to think about the pros and cons, the wins and losses between you and her, because that’s definitely not the main reason why your relationship is failing, and there’s no winning or losing between you and her.
Love yourself
The appearance of the mistress is actually a reminder to you It’s time to love yourself a little more. Maybe you used to think that your hair just needs to be tied casually, and that you don’t need to be too particular about what you eat…and so on. A trip to the hair salon, a happy meal or perhaps a trip to the travels, you will find more beauty in yourself and the world.
Lastly confront the mistress
Tell her thanks for being brave and strong is your current motto. The face of the junior questioning or provocation, even if the heart more angry more heartache, you say thank you to her. The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of how you are going to lose it.
And most importantly, after beating up the culprit, loot his money and walk away in style. This thing let you completely see his face, such a rotten mud, that junior want to dump to her hold good. I don’t care!