Girls just love to fantasize, especially the leftover women are very eager for their love to come quickly, whether reading novels or watching movies, feel like the heroine of them, in fact, some times it is not really love to come, just your little illusion, to be less embarrassing to look at it first!
1. Admiration
Teacher-student love and idolatry all fall into this category. We just admire all the good things about each other, most likely because we wish we had those good things, so it’s not parallel love.
2. Ambiguity
Many times men like to find a woman to talk to in order to relieve boredom and loneliness, and the words are always ambiguous. We are prone to indulge in this kind of relationship and even think it is love. In fact, the reason why a man is ambiguous is precisely because he clearly understands that he will not give love. The man who can really give love will not play ambiguous with us.
3. Physical attraction
Men love to praise a woman’s appearance, no matter how beautiful or ugly they are, they love to be called “beautiful”.
When a woman thinks she is in love with herself, she is only in love with the woman’s body.
4. The desire to escape
When we are stressed, we want to divert our attention, which is why we are most likely to have relationship problems in our junior and senior years instead.
5. Loneliness
We all inevitably feel lonely and isolated, but it’s something we should get over ourselves, and bringing it into a relationship only makes us lonelier.
6. Common interests
Sometimes you’re just each other’s best playmates, sharing interesting things, and what exists between the two of you isn’t a feeling of love.
7. Infatuation
Glorifying each other too much, not accepting each other’s imperfections, and falling irrationally in love with each other are all part of the infatuation loop.
8. Compassion
You may involuntarily sympathize with the other person’s problems, thinking you can bring them salvation and help them change, when in fact it is you who is dragging them down.
9. A substitute for affection
When family can’t give us a warm embrace, love may become a substitute, clouding your vision of who to choose.
10. The short-lived first love between young boys and girls
This sudden feeling of liking each other can also somehow disappear and does not last.
11. Revengeful romance
When we are frustrated in a relationship, we are likely to develop a new relationship in order to prove our worth, but then just hurt the other person or ourselves more and not solve the problem.