Some people say that marriage is the grave of love, and the love that is engraved in your heart cannot withstand the torment of marriage, and married life is always mixed with all kinds of annoying trivialities, and the deepest feelings will become ordinary as a result. The actual fact is that as long as you pay attention to the following points, you will be able to lock your charm firmly, so that your marriage will not light up red.
The right time to lose your temper
Never lose your temper Women, like plain water, a quenching of thirst, but tasteless. Your husband did not return all night and did not lose his temper, I understand. If he did not return late at night for several days, you did not lose your temper. That is tolerance is excessive. A single tolerance will only make the man more aggressive. If you then lose your temper and yell at him, do you still want the family? One to warn the man who does not love the family, the second to let the man know that you still care about him.
Respect your husband’s family
I always say that when loving each other , love everything about the other person as well. With your husband’s family, you also need to be tolerant and trusting. Don’t go home and throw a fit because your husband and your mother-in-law have a hug. After all, that is the mother who raised him for decades. This is a situation that you just laugh off. Sometimes mothers are not particularly comfortable with their newly married sons and are afraid that their sons will suffer. Instead of going to argue with your mother-in-law, you should use your heart to move your mother-in-law and reassure her. You should also remember that it’s normal for mothers-in-law to have strange tempers sometimes, after all, most mothers-in-law are going through menopause. Be more understanding and tolerant of your mother-in-law. With your sincerity, one day, your mother-in-law will love you like a daughter. Women do not have to fight for everything, after all, is a family, a family should be a family that loves each other. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
The right kind of crazy in bed
Ladies need to reflect on Why does your husband like leprechauns? Why did your husband do something wrong to you? Why do you have talent and beautiful, your husband still transgressions? I always say, the world is not who is sorry, there is no absolute who is right and who is wrong, only who does not cherish who. In your husband’s mistake at the same time, but also to reflect on what their own shortcomings. According to my investigation, there are individual married women, I do not know if she is sexually frigid or selfish, the same room when the old only willing to own in the following, only willing to let the man out. If it is a physical reason can only be in the bottom, men will understand. If the newlywed period can understand, occasionally this is also understandable. But if you are a healthy person old so willing only in the bottom, after a long time, men are not tired of it is difficult. Long years, I always say, love is the two sides, but also need you women to give. You also need your greetings, ask how it feels? Men also need your active love.
In order to make a long-lasting family happiness, spiritual love should always be accompanied by physical sex, and likewise, physical sex that is not harmonious and beautiful can affect one’s spiritual love, making people distant and indifferent to each other. Of course, female compatriots should also remember that the madness should also have a degree yo, but also to gradual. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Dress up appropriately
After a long life, some women After marriage, always think, anyway, I am his people, what look does not matter. But long years think, women do not take plain or housework as a shield, to be able to dress up properly. Because men are visual higher animals. Sometimes it is also a curiosity animal, give him the unexpected, can make her to you long years of loving, will reduce the left hand touch the right hand feeling.
If you don’t know the heart of a man, you are not a complete woman. When you have time, go to the beauty salon to do beauty, and have some practical cosmetics at home. Men are generally not heartbroken about the money you spend on your looks. Of course, do beauty should also have a degree yo, do not run to the beauty salon every day, do not always get like a leprechaun butterfly like flower posture. If you want plastic surgery, be sure to respect your husband’s views, yo. Of course, the long years have been saying that the beauty of the face also has a hero late, only a beautiful mind remains the same throughout life. Heart beauty is the most important. Appearance is also naturally beautiful. But at some point, dress up and give your husband a surprise and why not?
A woman’s beauty is also dressed out. Choose your favorite clothes and accessories that can correct and cover up the lack of your figure. And it can emphasize and highlight the beauty of your figure, which in turn makes you feel confident about yourself. In the case of the family economy allows, women can go to buy their favorite clothing, etc. Make up (makeup) out of the beauty, wear out of the charm, out of confidence. The long years are right, aren’t they, fellow women?
Give your husband some space
Some women like to keep their Some women like to keep their husbands under control like they are in jail. The money in the purse should be controlled, not more than how many dollars? The phone should also be given to him to see if there are other calls or text messages that she is interested in, no smoking, no drinking. No socializing, no internet access, etc. The long years, I have always said, men and women even if they love each other, but also to give each other the appropriate space. After all, love is broad, in addition to love, there is friendship and affection. To trust your husband, do not think that in addition to yourself, the world’s women are vixens, or even sluts or whatever. In itself, you are a woman, to respect women. You yourself do not respect yourself, how can you do it?
And don’t be compulsive to change your husband, itself some can be laughed off is all. Such as he likes Yao Ming, you like Kobe, must he also go like Kobe. He loves to watch soccer, you love to watch Korean dramas, must he also love Korean dramas, and so on. Tired of yourself, but also make him tired, why bother? Instead of changing your husband, you should change yourself first. You don’t want to change yourself, you’re too lazy to care!
Of course, the female compatriots remembered that the man should be properly managed. Indeed men sometimes do not consciously, play without regard for the family, drinking old drunk, smoking in bed, etc.. These you lose your temper, if he loves you, men are also understanding of you. Control the man is like flying a kite, let him fly high, but the line to hold in the hands of yo! Love is also like a magnetic field, not a rope. You tie him up, it is better to attract him. A rope, men always find a way to break free of her. A magnetic field, on the other hand, can give a man the illusion of freedom and eternal charm. You are the magnetism and the charm.
Have a considerate and gentle femininity
Women should not be too much The good strong, some women’s self-esteem is too excessively strong, others are wrong her attitude tough, I understand. But it is clear that she is wrong, her attitude is still the same tough. She always thinks to beg others or to apologize to others is a cheap performance. She is never going to show weakness to a man, such a woman is a headache for men. A smart woman should know when to be strong and when to show weakness. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
What is femininity is to be gentle and considerate to the one you love. There are two kinds of women are the most lovely, one is the mother type, take care of the man in every way, feel so warm. There is also a kind of sister type, know in front of the person you love appropriate whining, pampering. Even shy, timid, so that a woman, men are easy to play out their personalities. Another kind of woman gives men a headache, do not know what it means to be gentle, do not know what it means to be considerate. There is also a woman who loves to ridicule, sarcastic husband, so that the blow to the marriage should not be underestimated. Once a blogger commented in my blog that men are busy outside the busy, but back to the wife’s cold words, the heart have to die feeling. Female compatriots, gentle some, considerate some of your husband it, not a crime! The man also needs you to care, to coax, more need your love of comfort and encouragement.
Being able to resist the temptation of the big world
Long years have said The so-called good woman is able to resist the temptation of the big world. The long road of life, with drive, money, handsome and so on, there are many such men. Do not look at these men will be immune, and even the spring heart. The long years have always said that mature people should be able to be rejected by others, but also to reject others. Women should be bold enough to say no. There are times when people are impulsive, but be sensible to overcome the impulse. If a woman has an affair, the blow to the marriage will undoubtedly be fatal.
Keeping the house in order
Home is always a warm place . It is also something that needs to be run with care between the couple. A good wife should be able to get into the kitchen, can be able to wash clothes, clean the room, but also to use some household appliances. If it is too annoying to take the dishes, it will really destroy the love. A home is neat and tidy, fresh, but also can see the essence of a woman, women are hard-working and whether the home is in order is also closely related. For mothers with children, you also have to do what a mother should do to make her children feel that there is only a good mother in the world and that a child with a mother is a treasure.
Have your own business and friends
Love isn’t our life is all about! It’s also easy to be happy when a woman has her own soulmate and a satisfying career. Women have their own business, they are not afraid of others look down on you, and not afraid of the difficulties of their own lives in the future, will not rely on anyone, rely on their own hands to create wealth. Do your favorite work, happy, how much income do not care too much. I’d rather we men suffer more and be more tired!
Sometimes friendship is also power. It can also give a woman infinite joy. I do not advocate women to have a lover to prove their charm, that is the destruction of marriage. What do you mean by soulmate, is the love of pure friendship, have your own good sister, good buddy. A woman has a confidant of the opposite sex, so that her husband does not dare to underestimate you, do not think that yellow face in addition to him, no one appreciates, to him at least a vague sense of crisis. But remember to grasp the right measure, to do it with a clear conscience!