As the saying goes, “Men can’t be spoiled, the more spoiled they are, the more jerks they are”, so in love life, a single-minded indulgence and understanding may not get a man to cherish and love, and sometimes it even makes him The mistake is repeated. So when should I choose to forgive, when do not need to give in? The first time I saw a woman, I had to be a little more careful.
1.He’d rather spend money than manage it
When this happens When this happens, you need to have a good discussion with him about money and then set a rule that says you must ask each other before splurging on a large purchase over a specific amount, or that you open a joint account to cover joint spending between the two of you. If he still doesn’t abide by your agreement, then you get to be a bully.
2. He’s complaining about his job
If he’s unhappy with his current job and wants to seek better opportunities, you need to support him as much as you can. But if you hear him complaining every day and never see him doing anything to improve that dissatisfaction, that’s when your inner sharp tigress comes out, and the only way to get him out of his current situation is for you to become tough.
3. Frequent contact with your ex
When this situation first When this first starts to happen, you can ask him in a pleasant way, “I see you’ve been in touch with your ex-girlfriend on Facebook, how is she doing?” This way will let him know that you have noticed, but that you don’t particularly care. But if their contact is getting more frequent, even with some very ambiguous words, or if the two are seeing each other a lot, then you need to think about how to guard your love.
4. You want to get married, but he doesn’t say “I do!”
You’ve been in a serious relationship for a long time and you haven’t mentioned marriage. Then try to have an open hearted conversation with him, if he avoids answering, then don’t continue the topic for now, but you should start bringing it up often in the future. If you’ve had at least three conversations and he’s still not showing signs of wanting to get married, or if he says he wants to marry you but never proposes, then you need to set the game up.