The failure of a marriage can often not be blamed on one person, a slap on the wrist does not ring a bell, both people have to review the matter. Women who have had a failed marriage often become second-hand in the eyes of men, from their value to their dignity plummeting, but can’t a “second-hand woman” have happiness?
It’s strange what’s happening to marriages these days, as many of our female friends around us are walking happily into the church one by one and jumping out of the fence one by one with their heads down.
This is a divorce that has become the weakness of all “second-hand” women, inferior and self-conscious, and not afraid to pursue happiness, and even to be used by men as a pain for men to laugh at themselves.
Hao Hao, who left the company, got married again, married out of town, and she didn’t make a big deal out of it, just left a message for a few of our better colleagues. We all hope that this time she can be truly happy.
I happened to meet Hao Hao six months later with a big belly, and instead of the joy of a mother-to-be, she had a sad face. The company’s main goal is to provide a better solution to the problem. “I am willing to marry you is your destiny, you such women are not men want!” Such words to stab Hao Hao. Even sometimes in bed, Hao Hao does not want to do, his husband has more reasons, a look you have been used, what fake noble face brutally dry, so Hao Hao very painful, feel that they do not have the slightest dignity in front of him. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
The love and affection she had before the marriage had long since disappeared, and Hao Hao asked me, “Is it a sin to have been divorced once? The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to its customers. I told her no, this kind of man, it is better to leave.
But Hao Hao said, watching her belly grow day by day, for this new life, she had to make a compromise, maybe she was really wrong to divorce, let alone marry again, a woman like her does not deserve to be happy.
Hao Hao is unfortunate, but how many women are like Hao Hao?
There are many women like Hao Hao, who have been divorced once as a shackle to bind themselves, carrying a cross, being pessimistic and negative about love and marriage, being submissive to men, and always feeling as if they have made a mistake, afraid of upsetting their husbands. The more you do this, the less men will cherish you. You are looking down on yourself, how can you get the respect of others.
It is said that a poor man must have a hateful place, and a hateful man must have a miserable suffering. The woman, don’t punish yourself with the pain of a failed marriage, that has become the past, you should be glad you left a jerk of a man and seriously look for the next man who cherishes you.
The second-hand woman, you have to face yourself, you can also be beautiful and fragrant, and will be more charming, you are like a phoenix after the nirvana, but also sharpened sand, into a delicate round pearl, although not a handful of women’s sharpness but exquisite charm, the more fragrant.
And men, you have to see the good thing about second-hand women, they are not as full of unrealistic romantic demands as first-hand women, no first-hand women’s arrogance and capriciousness; they will know more about management, know more about cherishing marriage, know how to give in at the right time and hold back. The second-hand woman is like a rose that is eager for the spring breeze and will try to bloom when she is given gentle care.
Second-hand women deserve more happiness, and second-hand women deserve to be protected by men!