Relationship is a science, there are rational laws to figure out, is a branch of psychology, we want to fall in love to talk well, to do it with ease, we have to understand what men are thinking at the root ……
One: Separate love and life cost-effective
Love Not all of life only 30% of the proportion, and 70% you must allocate to family, career and interests. Especially especially career, you know how important career is to men, how important making money is to men, how important fame and fortune is to men, 99% of men rank career bills before women, you do not ask a man to rank you first, meaningless, you can bring him social status, fame and fortune?
If you’re an official 2 generation rich 2 generation, then you become, but most of the girls are just ordinary people ah, you ask all day to put together a relationship can talk about a house a car? Obviously not possible, then what is the actual meaning of you? The actual reason for this is the fact that the company’s business is not a business.
After all, if you are in love, it is a vain thing, and life must be of actual material quality, so please understand him, he is busy he has no time to contact you, he is working hard to create wealth, so please be busy too, you should also actively work hard for your job career day to day, and try to earn money, this is necessary, you must also have a career, at least equal to his, so that you can be in the
Two: don’t easily say break up
Don’t move to break up threaten men 90% of girls say break up just for men to retain themselves, and then give themselves the psychological comfort that this man still love themselves care about themselves, there are 50% of girls to achieve the purpose, there are 50% of girls really be broken up, the latter this 50% of the girl after the breakup that tangled ah, sad ah, and blame themselves, saying how bad they are, how do not know how to do things, in fact, the man is very good to her, she made, and then no point of dignity to ask for a composite, I said the girl, you think this is interesting, fun ah? The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you are doing.
Your behavior only makes the man feel wolf, people will be tired, and then feel that this woman is so annoying and annoying oh, all day to engage in a little bit of nothing, really can not be good with her again, otherwise waste of time and spirit. The girl can only be a person in the douban masturbation to masturbation to masturbation, how miserable they say how pathetic like, girl you really have time!
Girl, break up not just say, more talk hurt vitality, between you and your man only 1 time to say break up, that is, you really decided to break up inside, you have thought before and after deliberated for a long time, you think this man is not suitable for you, you go on is a waste of time, for the sake of their own happiness break up is the most sensible choice, and not half regret, then please bravely say break up, then. That is true, not wolf. If this break up, perhaps there will be a short period of sadness after the separation, because to adapt, but not too sad, because it is a sensible choice. The actual fact is that you will have a good deal of time to think about you from time to time and hang on to it, and perhaps you will cross paths again sometime in the future.
Three: love has no reason
If a man breaks up with you, please turn away decisively without any hesitation. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
But I’ll tell you, there’s really only one reason to break up, he doesn’t love you anymore, he doesn’t feel it, and it’s a shock, but you have to face it and accept it.
Girls, don’t go looking for reasons for a man to believe his bullshit about finances, family conditions, school, career, etc. If these are the reasons, then he has these problems with any girl in a relationship and he doesn’t deserve to be in a relationship, but the truth is, not long after breaking up with you, he’s got a new love!
You know, not loving is not loving, and love itself is very fragile without the bundle of interests, and today there are feelings when you can get together for 72 hours, but this feeling is slowly weakening, to the point that after you do not have something in you that attracts him, and you can not bring him financial or spiritual benefits, he will be farther and farther away from you. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
4: Refuse to be a jitterbug, don’t be a Madonna
Don’t be a Madonna in a relationship don’t be too nice to a man. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Your aim is to make him suffer, never too sure how much you really love him, let him go on the edge of his seat, let him always keep the desire to conquer, as I said a man’s desire to conquer and sexual desire is his natural instinct, you can’t force it away, if he loses his desire to conquer you, then you’re not far from being dumped. In fact, men to get a woman to bed is not difficult, why many women in bed after the man is not good for her, or lazy to take care of it? The actual fact is that you can find a lot of people who are not able to get a good deal on a lot of things.
But it’s not just a way to bring your relationship closer, it doesn’t mean that your heart is completely his after you sleep with him, you have to make him feel like he’s got your person, but he hasn’t really got your heart, he has to always find ways to really get your heart, that’s what makes it challenging, his desire to conquer will be on a higher level, more stimulated.
A man’s mind is sometimes very simple, after getting into bed you or he thinks you are his woman, you have to eliminate this idea that getting into bed does not mean you are his woman, your heart is not fully given to him, this is the thing that makes him the most chesty, the more chesty he is the more dominant you are, this is what I mean by having to keep him conquering at all times.
Five: understand what you want
Being in a relationship with you doesn’t mean that you must be married to you not that the other person is playing with his feelings, just that people are watching to see if you are the right wife for him.
The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you want to do.
Don’t run up and think about marrying someone before you’re in a relationship or just a few days into a relationship, then you’ll be disappointed plus desperate. We are in a relationship to grow plus mature, our ultimate goal is to get married, but not that any relationship has to result in marriage, one party does not feel fit to marry, do not twist, save yourself the trouble of divorce procedures later.
This is like college graduates nowadays, they all want to be bosses after graduation, but bosses are not something you can be as soon as you graduate, most of the time we need to work for others for a few years, and then start our own business after we have some social experience than college students without any foundation to start a business with a higher success rate. To be a little higher than the success rate of college students without any foundation. The more you talk and gain experience, the more you will know what kind of person you need, and the clearer the outline, the closer you will be to getting married.
Written here, the above 5 points are what I can think of at the moment roughly most women in love will make mistakes, of course, you are welcome to propose more comprehensive rational analysis, or a different point of view In fact, I have always felt that love is a science, there is a rational law to figure out, is a branch of psychology, we talk about love well, to do a good job, to do with the ease of your career and work will be helpful The reason for this is that it is a test of one’s emotional intelligence, you know how to figure out the psychology of a person, in your work you know how to figure out the psychology of your colleagues boss customers, the theory can penetrate and learn from each other.