Most leftover women are reminded of their age by the people around them, and then actively or passively start looking for their other half. When they find the courage to take the first step, they realize that they seem to have a “can’t start a relationship” disease. What to do?
Many women become left over because they focus on school or work, which leads to a smaller social circle and no new friends, so they are slowly left behind. After entering society, it may be a long time not to encounter the male who makes his heart beat faster, or not in a relationship, slowly do not know how to fall in love. If you have any of the following hints, then pay attention.
I. Not paying attention to their appearance
First of all, I have to mention The first thing that has to be mentioned is that they have forgotten that they are women. For example, the way they wear makeup hasn’t changed a bit in over two years, they don’t buy seasonal clothes, they don’t know how to fix their nails when they’re long (and they occasionally get dirt under them), and it’s been six months since they last went to the salon ……
II. Not paying attention to their behavior in public
Not paying attention to their behavior in front of people is also evidence that they forget that they are women, for example, sitting For example, squatting directly on the ground when riding on the tram, or even putting on makeup on the tram …… on the tram, is no different from showing your butt in front of everyone.
Three, whining
The next thing to say is that their bodies and hearts couldn’t be fuller! If you want to say what kind of state it is, whether it is work or interpersonal, when they open their mouths, it’s all whining words. And friends together also net say some “leadership and angry at me ……”, “why is always me ……” and so on. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Four, the joy of life is eating and sleeping
If there is any joy left for them, it is eating. The only two things left for them to do for fun are to eat and sleep. The body is full of fat and the desire for love is not satisfied. TV and magazines are healthy things, but they tell them that it’s important to keep their bodies in good circulation, but they can’t whisper the sweetness of love. With poor body circulation and a lack of care from men, their hearts and bodies are gloomy and lifeless.
Everything happens for a reason. In fact, older leftover women are like angels with broken wings, longing for love inside while resisting it. Generally this happens, most likely due to the following reasons
Overly low self-esteem
Older leftover women are unable to marry for a long time. So it is inevitable that they will have low self-esteem. Especially after seeing the sisters and girlfriends around them have a happy home, the older leftover women’s inferiority complex is even more serious. The reason for this is that you will always be hesitant to face love, and eventually you will be left behind. As left by love, so more inferiority complex. This is caught in a vicious circle. In fact, age is really not a problem, and appearance is not the only determining factor for love. As long as the heart is pure and good, you can blossom the brightest smile. The only way for older women to overcome their inferiority complex and regain a confident smile is to meet a beautiful love soon, and then say goodbye to singleness and leave the ranks of older women.
Overly conceited
Overly conceited is also a very bad psychology compared to low self-esteem. The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you’re doing. Some older women have very good conditions, such as a doctorate, such as rich, such as a successful career. But it is insulated from love. This is often related to their too conceited. Because the conditions are excellent, so the opposite sex is always picking their noses and eyes, no one can look into the eyes. Girls, ah, to know that gold is not perfect, no one is perfect ah. Ask, if there is really a perfect man in this world, it’s your turn to pick? Be contented and happy. Almost on the line. Love or marriage, it is only to find a partner, live well. If the requirements are too high, it will only be the greater the hope the greater the disappointment.
Overly self-absorbed
The so-called self-absorbed, that is, self-closed. Like a person will be humble to the dust, and then a flower will bloom. The meeting in this life needs many times of looking back in previous lives in order to exchange. The reason why many older women will always be single and not ever be pampered by love, a large part of the reason is that they are too self-absorbed. If a person lives in a self-contained environment for a long time and refuses to make any changes or concessions, then the leftover women will eventually only grow old in their pale years. To meet a person of the opposite sex, to start a love affair, you must convince yourself to make an effort to step out of the cage of self-bondage. If you love, you have to be brave enough to confess. If you are too self-conscious, you will only let yourself pass by love. Outside the window, there are birds of love flying by. The windows are closed to the leftover women, so the birds of love can only hover outside the windows. The truth is, if older women open the window of their hearts gently, they will welcome a beautiful, fragrant love.
If you want to attract the attention of the opposite sex, then you have to pay attention to your words and behaviors. The first place to start is to change your appearance. Even if you are alone, you have to be responsible for your appearance. Active skin care is a good way to do this. Seeing your skin getting better day by day, people are especially and confident. Second, you can occasionally draw a light makeup when you go out. Don’t feel that a person learn makeup is not necessary, confident, beautiful, generous woman, was a scenic route, men always can’t help but stop by after. In addition, the right makeup can also be a kind of respect for others. Finally, do not easily to their own sloppy. This is the first signs of a yellow face after marriage. The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you are doing.
Love needs to be timed to love early rather than just right
If you want to start a new relationship as soon as possible, then expanding your old social circle is a natural choice. First, accept everyone with a tolerant mind. Most leftover women are not young and have their own requirements for their significant other. The most common thing is to make too much criticism of him before everyone gets to know each other better. This is a bad behavior for expanding the social circle. Get to know everyone with a tolerant mind, just as you would an ordinary friend. Second, properly adhere to their own principles. When it comes to meeting friends, tolerance is the way to go, but don’t let others feel they are eager to get rid of their leftover status. It is still important to stick to your behavior when it is time to do so. Finally, believe that you are the best.
Love needs to master the timing love is better early than love is just right
There are many leftover women who can’t start a relationship, and the most important thing is for each person to be positive and improve. The most important thing is for everyone to be positive and improve. For example, insist on high expectations for yourself, both on the outside and inside; actively participate in social activities to meet new people; and, importantly, remember to give the right person a chance when you meet him.