Women don’t do the so-called confidant, men then have a wife is always thinking about the so-called lover in addition to the beautiful name of the confidant, in fact, the confidant is said to understand him, love him, but who has known the so-called confidant is only a lover of his heart.
Speaking of which the confidant is more unseen, more than the real value of men’s lives, is a form of existence of women’s self-sacrifice, women want to do wife, or do lover, if the man does not dare to want you to do lover, then you can dash away, than the wife Of course, it goes without saying, that is, than a lover, a lover can get a man material, or physical or spiritual comfort, and the confidante is not as affordable as a lover, to the light, the man needs you when he takes you as a relative, but in the time of a lover and wife, in fact, the confidante is a what? It is just a kind of substitute for a lover when he desperately needs it.
I don’t like to be a lover, but the pain of this confidant is simply unsympathetic, seeing him in broad daylight holding hands with his lover and living happily with his wife, but the confidant will pretend not to care, but will care more about every little thing he does, because he loves him, tolerates him, because he pampers him. Tolerate him, tolerate his intimacy with other women because of pampering him.
I don’t know what the reason is, now the popular confidante, become a dream of men, women think they are wise identity, in fact, which is so simple, as a woman can not do what confidante to a man they do not love, but also just buried deep love for him, only It will be so lowered their own requirements, condescending to act as its confidant of helplessness.
In fact, to be honest, men want this so-called confidant around, in fact, you can get the woman’s tenderness, and can be suspected by others when the two have an illicit relationship, you can back out of the whole body the best of both worlds, and the embarrassment of women, women know in their hearts, said There is no relationship, the two have long been beyond the spiritual communication of lovers or wives, say there is any substantial relationship, but physically is not any transgression.
When a woman can’t stop loving, the man will say we are friends, and when the woman is going to stay away from him, he still says we are friends, they play the guise of friends actually do lover’s hookups, these heart and soul communication in the eyes of outsiders, will not be able to appreciate.
But if the woman once that day moved to take a step forward to be a so-called lover, this is when the man is afraid, because the reason why it is a confidante is often a last resort that cannot be a lover, but the man’s sex and love can be separated. And women in the do after the confidante, also known as the spirit of derailment, women will become willing to do for emotional moth to flame, this time the man became retreat, afraid, and women at this time the confidante title is not willing to wear, want to do men real lover, who called the man plucked her heartstrings?
The man’s retreat, the woman’s fearlessness of feelings, let the man afraid, the man will be scared to hug the head, when the woman instead repeatedly read its suffering, thinking about how all kinds of previous mutual care and consideration, think of the previous mutual pleasure in spirit, women ah! It is silly, in fact, the man’s former so-called happy, only within a certain range, beyond this boundary, the man will become irritable, because you have begun to enter his life to interfere with his normal life, disrupting his life order, he was scared away, if there is still some reluctance, perhaps to see what the woman will be silly for him, after all, a woman loves him this thing how proud ah!
In fact, think about it as a redhead’s own to what? The man’s fake concern is just a man’s usual trick that he couldn’t get before, in fact, what such a man has to stay, love their own people are there, only to be such a good worthless man fascinated eyes, can’t see that there are many good men under the sky, can change others to do lover, to be honest, in fact, their own husband, once was not their favorite person?
In short, compared to a lover, a confidante is better than a lover, can not do a lover, then please turn around, because they are suitable for their own men, huh, or the old saying, men are a plate of food, suitable for their stomachs, stay, otherwise turn around Pour it out, that is not the vegetable market fresh vegetables, waiting for you to pick it?