Money has become the leading cause of couple breakups and should be taken seriously. Many people say that people who really love each other will not let money problems affect their relationship. But according to a survey, nearly 30% of loving couples break up because of money problems, and some couples even part ways because of some money entanglements when they are about to get married. How can lovers not break up? Here are four money mistakes to avoid in the first place.
Never talk about
Many couples who are together never discuss money issues. Although hot love can still tolerate each other, but once the hot love, always have to face the reality of life. At this time, everyone will begin to calculate in the mind, if you do not understand each other’s mind, it is very likely that because of some monetary differences and disconnect, thus affecting the relationship. So couples should get to know each other at the right time and find the best way to spend money for both of you.
Income differently, but practice AA
In many post-90s couples In order to try to avoid monetary entanglements, many couples use AA when they get together in order to get absolute fairness. However, this method is dangerous for those who have different incomes, or even a big gap. This is because once the income gap is wide, the frequent use of this method can create a sense of resentment in one party, feeling that the other party does not really love them, even to calculate the accounts so clearly. So the best solution is to cross-pay and selectively share, rather than absolute AA.
One person managing two people’s money
When many couples fall in love and their relationship stabilizes, they will hand over the financial reins to one of them to manage. If two people have reached the degree of cohabitation, then it is okay, but if the two people are not so deep feelings, there are still some variables between each other, a person to manage two people’s money will make both sides produce a sense of bondage, feel controlled by each other. It’s easy to lose balance in the long run. Therefore, if you feel that there are still variables between you, you should not try this type of money management.
One person pays all the expenses
For girls in love When a girl is in love, she may feel that it is only natural for her boyfriend to pay for everything she does. But everyone’s idea of money is different, and just because you think so, doesn’t mean that others do. If you rely on a person’s money for a long time, the relationship can easily turn sour. It will lead to some conflicts. The best thing is to make sure that you are not absolutely dependent on your boyfriend when you are in a relationship, and it is necessary to help him share his expenses at the right time.