Recently, there has been a wave of divorce in the mainland after the college entrance exams, and some believe that the hot weather is one of the reasons. The once sworn vows are just that, so how to keep love fresh and can grow old together is a must for both spouses. So why is the divorce rate so high today? Here are 5 details of life that have the potential to trigger relationship conflicts.
1. Meet offline
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The University of Chicago Society span style=”text-indent:2em;”>PsychologyProfessor John Cacioppo says, “Nowadays, it’s no longer bizarre for people to date over the Internet, and the future of online dating is quite positive . This result is a little unexpected.” The survey counted 20,000 American couples who got married between 2005-2012. The results found that 35 percent of couples met online, and 6 percent of those couples divorced. This compares to a higher divorce rate of 8% of couples who met offline.
2. Mutual suspicion
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It is to the point where women nearing forty lack a basic sense of security, always feeling that men are forty a flower, and women are forty a bean curd, so the desire to control plus suspicion will be tossed husband exhaustion, divorce is also one of the quickest ways to get rid of.
3. The passion of love has faded and affection has not yet formed
When people reach middle age, the passion of love and the freshness of marriage have faded, the seven-year itch of bonding has passed, and the heart that used to be tolerant of everything is beginning to be absent. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers, and to provide the best possible service to its customers.
4, the disappearance of sweet talk
The first few years of the new marriage, passion Burning years, like glue naturally do not feel each other’s shortcomings, as the marriage goes through the friction period, into the dull period, people’s mentality will also change. In general, the first three years of marriage is a period of friction, a little argument and quarrel is inevitable; the seventh year began to enter the seven-year itch of the dangerous period, see each other’s shortcomings will be more than the advantages; from the tenth year began to enter the marriage of the burnout period, has been indifferent to each other’s strengths and weaknesses, so no feeling of life if you meet the one that makes you feel the others, there will naturally be a story.
5. Homework is not distributed properly
A study by Norwegian scientists found that maldistribution of household chores may increase the divorce rate by 50%. On the contrary, one person taking sole charge of household chores will instead improve the quality of marriage. However, in reality, experts still recommend that couples negotiate and work together on household chores. At the same time, it is important to learn to thank and praise.