When it comes to choosing a man for a woman, it’s really “hard”! If you’re not careful, you’ll meet a hidden liar in the process of love, and if you don’t pay attention, you’ll fall into a third party that destroys other people’s families. The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you are getting into.
1. Please give me a little more time.
A little time is really a vague concept, what do you mean by a little time, an hour? A day? A month? A year? A little time can also wait for ten years. If you are willing to wait, a little time can even be your whole life. This is the most common and easiest subtext to break down, where he is actually telling you “you’re out of luck”.
2. I’m unhappy with my life, my wife doesn’t understand me, and I’m miserable.
Please believe that he is indeed miserable, but the main aspect of his misery is still because he doesn’t get you. Happiness is a slap in the face thing, you have to work on both sides together, and if you are not happy, you put the blame on your wife, you can see that this person has no love, no righteousness and no sense of responsibility, what is there to love?
3. You are the cutest, beautiful, smart …… (ellipses can be added to any good adjective) girl I’ve ever seen and I love you.
Accept his compliments, but don’t let them go to your head. Remember, before saying this to you, there is no telling how many hundreds of times he has said it to his own wife, and he takes it at face value, even though you still find it fresh.
4. I can’t give you a future, but at this moment I mean it.
He put the ugly words in front of him and counted him as open-minded. However, ultimately there is no future, why do you need to dry consumption with him? The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
5. We just chatted.
Downstairs in the hotel, he invited you up to chat, so you never came out that night. Don’t think you have much resistance. Young hormones plus the teasing of an experienced man, and a scandal is born.
To keep loving him or to give up on him? It becomes your biggest headache as soon as the day dawns.
6. I’m not married.
He does look young, suave, and unloved. But such men often have amnesia, lying to you that he is not married, but after you fall in love with him will violently tell you that he is married. It’s despicable.
7. I tried my best to restrain myself, but couldn’t resist your temptation.
Look, you seduced him, he didn’t seduce you. This kind of married man is the type of man who has gotten a good deal. You still kick it out and send it to the frontier best. The company’s main goal is to provide a comprehensive range of products and services to the market.
8. You won’t get pregnant.
You won’t get pregnant, so there’s no problem getting laid. He who has experience knows how to use condoms. However, N years later, when you happen to meet this person holding a big fat son and his wife happy, you will suddenly realize, so, he still have not use condoms when ah; so, there are happy women can be pregnant for him ah, but obviously you are not. Think it’s unfair? Too late.
9. I’m going to talk to her tomorrow.
Don’t worry, he won’t say anything for the rest of his life. He’ll live with his wife forever, and with patience, he’ll be able to get around to getting between you and her. But you will always be just a lightning rod in his life, and others are his mountains and rivers of years.
10. I sincerely want to tell you I’m sorry.
Before the end, there is always something nice to say, accept his apology, and if you don’t relieve the hate, return a slap on the wrist. After all, there is no better way to make up for it, those lost youth, attrition of love, increased wounds.