Love grows or dies on a date, so how can we master the rules of dating? See the report of a survey of men. We surveyed 19,000 single men, and they are some of the most attractive people to date! Let’s see what’s going on in their heads.
Rule 1: I have friends all over the world
Our question: Under what circumstances do you usually meet women”?”
57% introduced by a friend, 31% at a bar or party, 12% at work.
They said, “I like to meet people of the opposite sex through friends, I feel safe that way.” David, 27, who works in the securities sector, said. But if you’re tired of the old-fashioned way of being introduced by friends, don’t forget that bars or parties are also good places to go. David said, “I’m okay with meeting people elsewhere.”
Rule No. 2: Your appreciation is his eternal love
Our question: What do women say that appeals to you the most”?”
51% “You have beautiful eyes”, 33% “How about I buy you a drink?”” , 16% “Haven’t we met somewhere before”?””
They said, “Genuine compliments increase my confidence and put me at ease.” Hanjin, a 26-year-old lawyer, said. The act of a woman paying a compliment to a man implies that she has a lovely, interesting and approachable personality.”
Rule No. 3: Subtle sexy cues are effective
Our question: what part of the date were you most satisfied with today”?”
59% of women are more sexy than they used to be, 27% of men are able to open up more to women than they used to, and 14% of women are more responsible about money than they used to be.
They said, “Once a woman shows her sexy side, everything becomes great.” Said Cheng Tao, a 26-year-old law student, and Pete, a 28-year-old real estate developer, who added: “I love it when a confident woman shows her feminine tenderness, and the smallest gesture of ruffling her hair or shifting her legs without thinking about it fascinates me.”
Rule No. 4: Food movies is the first choice
Our question: what show do you pick for a first date”?”
72% had dinner together and then watched a movie, 27% hiked or played sports, and 1% listened to a poetry reading.
They said, “Dinner and a movie together would be the best choice.” Wizi, a 25-year-old engineer, said. “If you feel good at dinner and there’s no awkward silence, a dimly lit movie theater is a good place for bonding. If you don’t feel good during dinner, the cinema can be a relaxing place for everyone. But if you go out for a hike or exercise, you can’t escape if you want to.”
Rule No. 5: Get him excited
Our question: what’s the best first date booster”?”
71% The conversation was pleasant, with laughter, no awkward silences, 18% A sexy body, and 11% Her dress and makeup indicated she had prepared well for the date.
They say, “Every man dreams of finding a woman to talk to, so it’s critical that the conversation is enjoyable.” Paul, a 22-year-old musician, said. “I would be satisfied if the other person would ask funny questions and tell little jokes that would keep me talking and laughing non-stop.”
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Rule No. 6: Never be a Xianglin wife
Our question: What do you resent the most on a first date”?
55% kept talking about herself and her problems, 26% she kept hounding me about my family, income, past girlfriends, etc., and 19% she was drunk.
They said, “I hate it when a first date turns into a grievance session.” Editor Jenning, 28, said. “I’d rather get the basics about her-her job, her perspective on life, etc.-before talking about heavy topics.” Don’t be too curious about him, either. “The constant questions make me feel like I’m being interrogated.” says Tench, a 32-year-old designer. “Real conversations are the best.”
Rule No. 7: Make him pay
Our question: do you check out on the first date”?”
79% yes, 21% yes, unless she asks for each to pay, 0% no, I want her to pay her part.
They said, “It’s great that women are willing to pay, but I wish I could pay like a traditional man and let her know that I not only consider her a partner, but something a little more special.” Gerry, a 26-year-old photographer, explained. Why let chivalry go out the window”?” Despite society’s evolution and change, men still want to keep the traditional image of being a protector.
Rule No. 8: Inform him you’re ready
Our question: If you had a chance to change one thing before tonight’s date, you’d want it to be ……
78% confused, I’ll never know if she wants me to take further action, 16% stressed, I’m worried about whether we’re hitting it off, 6% too expensive, it’s always the man who pays the bill.
They said, “I wish girls would suggest when action is most appropriate.” Philly, 24, said. Hints men want you to make include touching his arm during conversation and smiling at him when eye contact is made. “If a woman smiles sweetly at me at the end of a date, I think she has signaled to me that I want further contact.” Feng Qing said.
Rule No. 9: Be first
Our problem: How about a woman taking the initiative first”?”
68% We’ll play along, 30% is fine, just don’t make me think she’s too dominant, 2% I still like it when men take the initiative.
They say, “Since I have no clue about a woman’s sexy signals, her taking the initiative would be a big help.” Xue Yi, a 22-year-old accountant, confesses. How do you get rid of your heels without him thinking you’re forcing him?” “Giving me a sign is enough to show that she wants more than just a conversation.”
Rule No. 10: Build your own sex steps
Our question: If a woman wants to get serious about a relationship with you, how long of a preparation period should you have?”
58% Does it matter”?” If we really hit it off, having intimacy on the first date wouldn’t diminish my respect for her, 21% I think three dates would be better, and 21% more than six dates.
They say, “If we’re hitting it off well, I don’t want to brush her off.” Wen Rui, a 28-year-old banker, said. A few people think good girls don’t make out with men until after at least three dates. “If she wants to go to a hotel on the first date, I’ll be scared off.” said Pang Yingjie, a 23-year-old musician.