Sex is an important part of a couple’s life and a regulator of their relationship, but there are always problems of one kind or another in sex, so how do you break through this barrier at this time?
Expression of feelings
To get real sexual satisfaction, couples should often communicate their feelings during sex, promote mutual understanding, so as to satisfactorily solve the problem of inconsistent intensity of sexual desire between couples, and coordinate the orgasm of both parties, so that the sex life can be perfect.
Updating the connotation
Couples who have been married for many years sometimes feel that sex life has a monotonous, dull feeling, and gradually produce boredom, which is the big taboo of the couple’s life. This is when couples should boldly try to have sex at different times and in different places to enhance the romance.
Imagine the fun
Emotional imagination can enhance the sexual excitement of both parties. The first thing you can do is to imagine your wife as a passionate, bold woman you love, and your wife as an idol you love, and you don’t have to feel guilty about it, so you can enhance each other’s sexual desire. The first thing you should do is to tell your spouse the secret of your fantasy, otherwise it will be counterproductive.
Avoiding anger
The occasional argument between a couple does not mean that the relationship is bad, but if you ask for sex when your anger is still fresh, the result is bound to be self-inflicted, momentary anger that is hard to dispel, and it is best to stop having sex for a while. Once the argument subsides and both sides gain understanding, the sweetest sexual satisfaction will be gained by throwing yourself into the arms of your spouse again.
Take the initiative to create
One of the spouses, sometimes not feeling sexual desire themselves, should be aware of their spouse’s needs and try to take the initiative, perhaps you too will quickly become sexually aroused.
Downplaying Failure
Couples should work to overcome sexual anxiety and failure. If sex is seen as a pleasure or an adventure, it is easy to bring your spouse to orgasm and to reduce the anxiety of sexual failure.
Consult the experts
Most couples experience temporary sexual failure, which can be related to physical causes (fatigue, infection, acute illness, etc.) and certain mental factors (stress, depression, work or family problems). These phenomena usually disappear within a few weeks, but if the problem persists for several months without improvement, it is important to consult an experienced professional to ensure that the couple’s sex life is improved.
Face up to reality
It’s unrealistic to expect every sex life to be perfect. Instead, face up to the reality that sex doesn’t always work, and sometimes fails completely, and know that you are a person, not a machine.