How many smitten men and women in the world fantasize that they can have a confidant who has the same taste, which is better like the heroes and heroines of the eight o’clock soap operas to accompany, comfort and enlighten themselves when life is down, no matter how poor or rich, young and beautiful or chicken skin old man, still in the himself beside. But reality answers, “The so-called red-headed confidant, blue-headed confidant, are the secrets that men use to pursue inferior women, the spare parts that women use to cheat themselves.”
Sincerely! In a man’s mind, a confidante is already categorized in his “personal to-do list” from the beginning of the friendship.
Men feel good about themselves, women are demanding
As we all believe, the opposite sex is the only one who can be a good match. As everyone believes, there is no such thing as pure friendship between the opposite sex.
A confidant is the awkward position of being above friendship and below relationship. The usual intentionally or unintentionally ignore the ambiguous atmosphere between the two, always think that mutual understanding between each other is really let the heart can not give birth to other feelings. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
The position of a confidant is that we are good brothers (or sisters?). The first thing you need to do is to make sure that you have a good understanding of the situation. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Studies show that men are more likely to be attracted to their friends of the opposite sex and more likely to misjudge their own attractiveness in the eyes of their friends of the opposite sex. And the more confident people are, the more attractive they are in the eyes of others, and surprisingly, the length of the friendship span doesn’t affect how attractive they are to each other.
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Most lovers start out as friends, especially “best friends” who know each other!
Many people also put their friends of the opposite sex in the “pursuit zone” but hesitate to do so because they are afraid of not even being friends if they break through that barrier. The company’s main goal is to provide a solution to the problem of the problem.
For men, it doesn’t matter if they are in love or not, and it doesn’t matter if they are also in love with other men. For women, relationship status is a major factor that determines their perception of their soulmates. In the eyes of a woman in love, a confidante is generally not very attractive and will not have the intention to develop further with the other party. However, once a woman starts to be alone, a soulmate will catch the eye of the lonely woman and she will be tempted to try it out with her partner. In addition, women are more conservative in love and will not take the next step if they are not sure if the other person is single.
To chase or not to chase? That’s the question
Why are men and women different? In addition to the difference in body structure and the combination of yin and yang, there is another important reason to reproduce offspring. It is often said that “men and women work together, not tired”? The strategy of courtship has changed with the times, from the primitive reliance on hormones to choose a mate to the ancient practice of parental agreement and matchmaking to today’s free love.
Men do everything they can to reproduce, and they are more likely to feel attracted to the opposite sex around them. Women generally expect to be in a stable, long-term relationship to think about having babies, which is why they are also eager to sell themselves when they are single.
But what percentage of friends and confidants that develop further from this will work out? Most men and women, especially women, see this development as a burden rather than a benefit.
Editor’s Note: When a man is caught getting close to another woman and telling each other his feelings, he always says, “She’s my redhead, and men need redheads. No matter how translucent and frank his eyes are. Women should not believe in this laborious ghost trick. There is no free lunch, nor is there a purposeless relationship. The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you’re doing.