Whether it is “better to learn than to marry well” or “better to marry than to learn well”?
University dormitory girls meet to show their boyfriends
A female student in her second year of study at South University was overwhelmed with emotion after meeting with fellow undergraduate girls, so she posted her feelings. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to its customers. The fact in front of her is that for women it is really better to learn well than to marry well? She is now very shaken. Which is more important, love or bread?
The girl’s post said: two days ago and the university dormitory girls together party, the boss (once the head of the house) asked to bring their boyfriends, coincidentally, my boyfriend went back home, so I was very brave to go alone, it was a great blow! This year, “can not afford to fight the father began to fight men! At that time, all 6 girls in our dormitory were there! Three with a man, a girl’s man drove the family’s private car (Mercedes-Benz), her man sent her iPhone 4S, they also use one, because they are engaged, so the man bought my classmate a car – Jaguar, it is said that more than six hundred thousand; the second girl’s man has got the house, is the urban area furnished houses The third girl’s man gave her a Samsung I9000 or something, a very big phone and definitely a famous university, and now the man is said to have started his own business, the prospects should be good ……
The second girl’s boyfriend has no house and no car
The second half of this post is about the feelings after the party: “I was really hurt after the party! Because my boyfriend is still in his second year of study, he will have to wait a year to graduate, and now he is still living the life of a student, going out to see a movie are to calculate which one is cost-effective, the most expensive gift ever given to me is a Meizu MP3, even after graduation is no car, no house, no nothing, no accumulation, it is really what you want nothing ah ！！！！ To have at least a few more years of struggle. The first thing that I want to do is to get a good job. The second female student said, when the party, listening to the former housemates introduced: they do not need to work hard every day, do not need to squeeze the bus every day, do not need to save money every day for good-looking clothes, want to buy anything, because, their boyfriends have plenty of money ……
Whether it is “better to learn than
Whether it’s “better to learn than to marry” or “better to marry than to learn”?
The last thing this girl asked in her post was this question.
Netizens are debating “learning well and marrying well”
The post of the second-year student has caused a heated debate among many students of Nanjing University and even universities in Nanjing, and the reporter logged on to Nanda Lily and Renren.com and found that the post has been highly topped.
“Marrying well is definitely right, having a material base is a guarantee of quality of life ……”
“Learning well will definitely lead to marrying well in the future, learning well is proportional to ability, don’t be confused by some scenarios in front of you. Don’t be confused by some scenarios in front of you, material things are earned by your own efforts, study hard, bread will be available ……”
“Your sentiment is actually very realistic, after graduating from graduate school with your boyfriend to find a good job, on their salaries, I’m afraid it will take I’m afraid I’ll need to work until I’m old enough to buy a two-bedroom apartment, and as for luxury cars, don’t count on it, unless you’re in a big money ……”
“There’s nothing wrong with women worshipping money, but please don’t just lower your noble head in front of happiness! ……”
The comments on the girl’s post are “flying around”, one floor after another, and the reporter simply counted them, favoring “learning well is better than marrying well
The mother of a second-year student responds to the question of “learning” versus “marrying” ……
The mother of a second-year student responds to the question of “learning” versus “marrying” …… “
On this posting of the second-year student from NTU, the reporter contacted the girl through various means yesterday, and the girl left a message for the reporter online, telling her mother’s view on “learning is better than marrying “The views of the. The girl left a message saying: two days ago the party is really let me feel a lot of ah! After informing my mother, my mother openly chanted: to find a rich ah! The woman did a good job is not as good as married, mother is not harm you ah!
I used to think my mom was a little too snobby when she said things like that, and now I’m confused. I keep telling myself: my boyfriend is a potential stock, and I really love love love him, we started from freshman year, together to now second year of graduate school, always a school, every day eat together and read together, very happy! I can’t afford to spell man now! Wait a few years later! I’m going to fight with you guys even when my man explodes! Besides, I am not bad myself! But my mother’s words defeated me again: “A good study is definitely not as good as a good marriage! Because the fact is in front of me, even if my boyfriend and I study well, we need to struggle for 20 years to buy a two-bedroom house …… The lights are out! The music is whispered! My heart is really broken ……”
When I was a girl, I naively thought love was beautiful! But now, love or bread, who is more important?
Dr. Zhou Kai, a professor at Nanjing University, said in an interview yesterday that he had also seen this hot post on the Internet, “Is it important to learn well or to marry well? The two cannot be compared separately, but there is one thing: learning well and marrying well should be proportional.