Choosing the right man is important, cold man or warm man? This is a big question, in fact, no matter what kind of man you choose, as long as he truly loves you and treats you well, that’s enough!
“Choosing a cold man or a warm man” is always a controversy of the century without an answer, but in fact, judging whether a man loves you or not has nothing to do with cool hair and sweet words. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Whether it’s a novel or a TV show, 80% of the scenes involving relationships are inevitably “the female lead is swinging between the cool, crazy, cool guy and the sweet, gentle guy. As the saying goes, there is controversy only when there is dog blood, and there is controversy only when there is something to see. A while ago, the release of “The Left Ear” also triggered another round of hot debate on the love of warm or cold men. The first thing you need to do is to make sure that you have a good idea of what you want to do.
[Warm man]
A warm man is a man who is like the warm sunshine. The most important thing is that you can get a good idea of what you want to do. They are usually meticulous and considerate, can take care of the family, can cook, more importantly, can well understand and sympathize with the emotions of others, look more of a slim and clean type, dress comfortably and properly, will not look too impetuous and pompous. The warmth of the man is more emphasized on the inside as opposed to the freshness of the man.
She/he says “warm guy”
1. warming one person is a warm man, warming a group of people is a scumbag
Does a warm man mean the kind of man who is very affectionate and cares more about anyone? I think this kind of men are not safe and suitable to be husbands. Although they have high emotional intelligence, very good at taking care of women, will be sensitive to capture your emotions to take care of you, but he will be equally instinctive to take care of other women. Such a man is a bright spot in the pile of women, and there will be many women who like him and have crushes on him, so he will be prone to be promiscuous.
Xiao Xiao, female, 32 years old, civil servant
< strong>2. Warm men are very considerate and make me feel loved
My previous boyfriend was always big-hearted and only cared about big things, and I felt often neglected. And now my boyfriend is very good to me, very gentle and considerate, always present when I need him, concerned about my needs, my feelings, and will also express love to me. The human heart is long, and who doesn’t move in such care.
3. I can’t accept “warm” to evaluate a man
3. indent:2em;text-align:left;”>Is a warm man necessarily a good man? Is a man who is not warm bad? “A man who talks to all his female friends in the same tone as he talks to his girlfriend is a warm man”, such a definition is not acceptable to me. Warm man also depends on who is warm, if to all people as sweet and gentle to the girlfriend, then it will not be an accident? And, why should I cook for them, wash their clothes, and ask for warmth to be considered a good man? It’s not easy for us to work hard to earn money to support our families.
4. A warm man is just a nice name, but in the end, you can’t do it without financial strength
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To be a popular warm man, it is not enough to be “warm”, you need to rely on economic strength and overall image to assist. The one who can cook is not a warm man, but a cook. If you don’t have the financial means to make a loaf of bread to surprise your partner, you don’t even have an oven, so how can you talk about warmth?
Warmers: why do you favor warmers?
“Warmonger” is a new term that has emerged in recent years, and while there have been “warmongers” in the past The second male lead has never been chosen by the female lead. The new term “warmongering” is a new term that has emerged in recent years.
For women, they need someone who is more emotionally delicate and sensitive, who pays more attention to details, and who can give them warm feelings in small places. Therefore, know how to think differently, pay attention to the emotional communication of the “warm man”, just become their spiritual needs, become more and more women’s new criteria for choosing a spouse. It is also a good idea to think that the emergence of warm men is determined by social development.
Nowadays, there are more and more females in society who don’t know how to express their vulnerable parts and tend to satisfy their inner fear and vulnerability in a male way, such as aggression, anger, tossing and other powerful ways, which is called reverse formation in psychology . True warmongers are capable of translating this, seeing the true inner longings that women hide in very nasty ways.
For example, if a man has to work late and a woman says, “Don’t go, okay? If a man is dumber, he will try to reason, not to go not, will be fired by the boss, but the more men explain the more difficult it is for women. They don’t understand that what women actually want is an attitude, not a debate on a factual level. When women lack the ability to express themselves and men lack the ability to understand women, the phenomenon of ditching and not getting through happens all the time. A warm-hearted man is able to avoid this as much as possible.
How do you find the warm, sunny man in your heart?
Women want to find a warm man who loves them is not wrong, but the premise is that what makes a warm man love you? The woman in the man to raise a variety of requirements, but have thought about themselves and meet each other a few requirements? The actual fact is that you can be a lot more than just a little bit of a person.
Women are especially eager for the kind of warm support they get from each other no matter how much they toss and turn, and it’s normal to have that need, but it requires effort on your part. There are two kinds of relatives in the world, one is born, one is acquired and requires your efforts, the partnership belongs to the latter. A warm man can’t match an ice woman, it’s not a one-way need, it requires interaction between both parties to make it happen. This is the myth that many women have when pursuing a warm man, that you can’t keep your head in the sand and see if you have the ability to get the man around you to give you that warmth.
A woman’s desire for a warm man is really her own inner need for love and warmth. This need of women, admittedly from the “warm man” to get satisfied, but a more reliable and responsible way is still self-nourishment, buy yourself some beautiful clothes, go to the beauty salon to do a SPA, leisure time to make their own pot of coffee, do not be stingy in giving yourself the appropriate material enjoyment. The first thing you can do is to make yourself a “warm woman” if you want to make your partner a “warm man”.
[Cold Man]
Cold Man, commonly known as the “beautiful man who crawled out of the refrigerator. “the beautiful man who crawled out of the refrigerator”, high and cold as hell. Although so far, there is no official description of the cold man online. The company’s main goal is to provide a comprehensive range of products and services to the market.
She/he said “cold guy”
1. Full of strong tenderness and cool to the point of no friends
My idea of the best high-cool boyfriend, preferably silent. Of course it must be handsome and rich, at least not mediocre, or else it is a loser. I’ve talked to a guy in college who likes to be clingy and super narcissistic, making people feel like they’re getting along with their brother, not their boyfriend. But what about my current boyfriend, he’ll tell me what to do when I’m uncomfortable, doesn’t grind up gossip with me, treats me like a little girl giving me guidance and advice, he even speaks to me with a little bit of a commanding tone, full of strong tenderness – can I just say I’m flattered hahaha!
2. There is no cold man in the world, he just doesn’t want to warm you up
If If the other person is only willing to “oh” and “um” in your face, won’t you feel bad? As long as a man loves you, he can’t help but give you warmth, so it won’t become cold. I think there is no warm and cold love, because they care about each other, so willingly for each other to become careful and gentle, everywhere for each other’s sake. The coolness of the attitude is just a gesture, to judge whether the other party loves you, it is not that tug of text a few sentences of answer, but to see his real action and care.
Xiao Peng, male, 32 years old, freelance
Xiao Peng, male, 32 years old, freelance
< strong>3. cold and gentle, such a contrast is very cute
Actually, what I like is that he is cold to others, but not to me, he will care for me and love me, such a contrast is very satisfying. The bad character, the cold tenderness, I just favor this kind of man.
Cold man control: why do you prefer cold men?
In many dramas, movies, and novel sequences, when faced with a cold man or a warm man, the female lead always chooses the former in the end. The woman, who is a cold man, has some untamed impulses and desires lurking inside her, and is more likely to be attracted to those who are similar to society’s definition of a “male role”: those who dare to break the rules of society and are willing to do whatever it takes to get what he wants.
The cold men’s ambition to conquer and their desire for instant possession makes women feel the burst of hormones that can be deadly in the early stages of a largely unconscious relationship. In addition, “bad men” tend to bring more novelty to women, and even excitement beyond “ethics” and “morality”, thus giving them greater attraction.
On the other hand, the charm of the cool guy is that “he doesn’t care much, but once he does, he cares a lot”. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to the market.
In turn, what warm men are good at is creating a solid and stable sense of security and smooth communication of ideas for the girl they love, while a pair of men and women need to break through the strangeness, suspicion, challenges, conquests and other things in the process of building an intimate relationship from two separate individuals.