Almost all men have complex and vicissitudes of emotional experiences that women must be sympathetic to.
One, past emotional experiences
In the manosphere, showing off how good and beautiful the women they have had around them is also a special way for men to prove themselves; but in the face of the current women, they will never easily mention it, because the past is another world even if it is more heartfelt .
Everyone will be curious about the past of the person they love the most around them, and want to have all of their loved ones. But once you know, what will be left but pain? Love needs to be sincere to each other, but also needs to have a secret. The so-called secret is to give love a space, let love breathe freely, keep love fresh and mysterious. Finally, one day, I plucked up the courage to say to him, but was stopped by him, he gently pressed my lips, said nothing to say, everyone will have a past, no past can not constitute the present, no one has the right to trample on the greenery of other people’s hearts. The first thing you need to do is listen to the heart of the man: love me and don’t ask me about my past.
II. Men’s vanity
Men are players, and if a man likes to race cars and is a center forward on the soccer field, his charm in front of women will suddenly increase. So men always have to know a few real skills, and at worst they have to play one of them with style so as not to lose face in front of women. So there are men who teach their girlfriends to play tennis and practice in secret first. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
In the middle school days of Mauboussin’s “The Necklace,” the wife of the vain civil servant paid ten years of hard labor for a string of necklaces. The first time I saw it, I thought that vanity was a woman’s preserve. The actual fact is that men are more vain than women. The woman’s vanity is superficial, and a string of necklaces will allow the woman’s vanity to be satisfied, while the man’s vanity is bone-deep.
Three, men’s sexual anxiety
One way to look at it is that men have a sexual fantasy every six minutes and only stop thinking about it when he’s busy with that thing. After thinking about one every 6 minutes for 6 days straight, men start to need to do something about it, but not many women will know about men’s anxiety about sex. Many men before they have the opportunity to let the penis a try before, have in the mind muttered this thing once erect how big it can be? They keep reassuring themselves that size is not the key – “it’s not how big it is, it’s how you use it”. But the truth is, the issue of size always haunts them. In addition to this, men are afraid of women who are more fancy in bed than him, and this kind of competition will scare him, and of course when men can’t, they are most afraid of women saying, “You’re sick, huh?” As for what prostatitis, impotence, premature ejaculation, hair loss, insomnia, kidney deficiency, palpitations, hemorrhoids, etc., are the infamous names that men are afraid to face.
In today’s life, it seems to be very common for men, especially middle-aged men, to have kidney deficiency. Women’s tears are gold, and when a woman complains that her significant other is not working, people are sympathetic. In contrast, the man can not that seems to have committed an unforgivable sin, get not what sympathy, is the same kind of disdain is also a monster in the eyes of the opposite sex.
Fourth, the child psychology of men
The ideal Takakura Ken-style tough guy image in women’s minds has taught men to have tears and not to play lightly, so men have grown up with the habit of denying their emotions – knocking out their teeth and swallowing in their stomachs, revealing too much The childishness is a sign of weakness. If a Japanese man had a business failure or an Australian cabinet dissolution and cried, it would have been an immediate headline in the newspaper. You know what? That’s why more men suffer from depression than women, and the suicide rate is even higher than for women.
Every man has more or less an Oedipus complex, especially in those men who lacked motherly love as children, they often snuggle in the arms of their beloved women in the dead of night, but of course this complex will not be everywhere, the woman in front of him must be his favorite and most trustworthy woman, because only in front of his beloved woman, he will feel safe.
Is it new that men are also pampered? The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. But since women can be strong, why can’t men be “weak”? This society is getting richer and richer, more and more tolerant, why should we favor one over the other? Let men have been tense as the embodiment of strength, how tired ah. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Men are easy to grasp, no matter how many illusions there are, as long as you love him, you can find his dharma from the infinite hidden world behind him.