The jokes are that the love of the couple is evident, and the wife can’t get away for one night.
Men are afraid of cuckolds
In fact, from a psychological point of view, this is a man’s inner latent “unsettled feeling”, we are right commonly called “cuckold phobia” it
In fact, from a psychological point of view, this is a latent sense of “restlessness” in a man’s heart.
Studies have shown that women trust their husbands much more than men trust their wives. This is consistent with real life – men can justifiably be out all night drinking and playing mahjong, and dismiss women with a few coaxing words, while this is often not the case with men to women.
I once read a case where a couple declared their marriage dissolved after three years of marriage, and the reason for the divorce was – the husband’s extreme distrust of his wife, as soon as she went out, the husband had to check her underwear, and if he found a lot of secretions, that is, to get to the bottom of the matter and chase after her. The company’s main goal is to provide a solution to the problem of the problem.
Sexuality is the psychology of exclusivity
Sexuality is bound to leave a large amount of secretions on the underwear, and this husband’s “chastity test” is straightforward, but he forgets that the increase in female lower body secretions comes from many sources. In addition to sexual activity (including sexual imagination), there are gynecological pathologies, strenuous physical exercise, etc., “secretions” became a “stand-in” for his distrustful mindset, forming a “secretion” =
The psychological loop of “cheating”.
Another typical “suspicious wife” behavior is to show strong antipathy to men around the wife, colleagues, classmates, friends and even relatives, as long as they are male, get along more often, especially if the wife mentions it more often, they “blacklist” him. He “blacklisted”, carrying this “blacklist”, accumulated into a “cuckold phobia”, spend effort to study, ranking his wife and these ” The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Extension of the virginity complex
There are many reasons for this mistrust, but there are only a few types: one is the “virginity complex”. The first is the “virginity complex”, the wife “suspected of not being a virgin” when they got married, or very clear that they are not her first lover; the second is a remarried couple, both have a history of marriage, and have different degrees of “re-love experience”; third is the inferiority complex, this situation is generally the woman extroverted personality, career work than the man to “wind and water” much, there are strong women and weak phenomenon; fourth is hearsay, by the special examples around the troubled, heard that a woman has such experience, but also everywhere to guard against their own people – here, I I said, these are unhealthy mentality.
As the saying goes, “the heart needs a cure” and “the bell needs to be untied”, trust comes from the purity of the relationship and depends on the inner “calmness” of the individual. The first thing you need to do is to take a look at the “illusionary” inference – if you say yes, it’s yes, if you say no, it’s no, so why not infer it as no?
When a zoo trainer can get along with a beast, why can’t he have more trust with his legal mate?