The president fell in love with me is a story that many women like to read, and it would be even better if it was the same in real life. It seems that the conditions of the heroine in the fictional serial are not so difficult to reach well. Really? Would a dominant president really like a woman like that?
Why do novels lie
In reality, not to mention the dominant president, it’s the men with a decent job that are sought after among women. What kind of women do these quality men appreciate? According to so many years of romance novels and idol serials, we all understand that they like those silly white sweet heroines. It is best to be kind and considerate and understanding, and in the end these women will always be appreciated by quality men like gold shining. If you really think so and plan to seriously hang a golden tortoise son-in-law, it’s better to wash your hands of it.
Why are fictional idols saying the wrong things? First, let’s look at the audience. Whether it’s a romance novel or an idol serial, it’s all about the woman as the target group. Meaning, those writers and authors, is to write stories that the female audience likes. If you like talented people, then see this kind of story. If like horror stories, like magic, like suspense …… will also be the result. This results in the fact that the fictional TV series plays the most loved dream of the group of women. Since it is said to be a dream, it is not in line with reality. It’s just that as an audience that has grown up seeing it, the perception is inevitably carried away.
This is the best lover in the eyes of a dominant president
< strong>1. A woman of the same class as him
Fictional demonstration: whether your family is a commoner or a small family, it is possible to meet a dominant president and fall in love.
Actual situation:
In terms of dating range, as the president The most likely target for development is not far from the same, as the men who come into contact with the same class of women as them. Even if you meet them on a plane, at a party, or just relaxing, they will be women in first class, women who have the status to attend parties, and women who play on the golf course. Thinking in reverse, if the fictional hero casually ran into the heroine on the street corner, then Deng Wendi would not have been ridiculed by the media for decades when she met Murdoch in the first place by careful design.
In terms of outlook and lifestyle habits, I’m sure we’re a far cry from the hegemonic president as a private citizen. Because we live in different circles, from the point of view of getting along, it also adds a lot of conflicts. These conflicts are fresh at first, and if the woman can’t handle herself when the man is bothered, what she gets in return may not be his pity, but boredom.
2. The mother’s family is rich and powerful to help her husband’s family
Fiction Demonstration: the family’s choice of the thousands of girls and his door to door will be abandoned. Because those women are too petulant and too pretentious.
Actual situation:
Pro, not only women will look for Highly rich and handsome men, men will also like white and rich women. The only woman who can add a boost to their own, why not? Even if it has been to the height of the president, there will be a lot of problems, marry a useful woman is not less struggle for twenty years (in fact, the hegemonic president does not need these) but can make your career, social status to a high level again (this is what he cares about things), after the children’s families can also benefit, what’s wrong? On the contrary, really married a commoner, may also have to headache grinding things, there is nothing to help the family, only true love. But this kind of true love, the probability is only 0.1%, but also you can really integrate into his circle of life before the true love is worn out.
3. Be a good assistant and secretary to him in his career
Fiction Demonstration: in the company can help are secretaries, is to play odd jobs. Even if the secretary is beautiful and excellent, she is only a small employee and will defend the heroine.
Actual situation:
Without a distinguished family history. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. Watch all kinds of rich or senior management of the woman, either before he was developed together, or not become his woman before the opportunity to get close to him, such as secretaries and so on. Here the secretary refers to not a vase secretary oh, is really capable and talented secretary. The company’s main goal is to get the best out of the market, and to get the best out of the market.
4. Appreciative type: intellectual woman
Fictional demonstration. Silly, sweet female lead. Dressing small fresh or sweet style, always have a pair of innocent big eyes and sweet smile. The silly, know nothing, especially can make the domineering president pity.
Practicality:
above we are analyzing from practicality The woman who is suitable for the dominant president. If it is from the point of view of appreciation, almost all the men of the domineering president will appreciate the intellectual woman. All the fresh wind, sweet wind of the woman in his eyes are little sister little girl, the most is a good impression of you have the opportunity to tease you, will not take you as the object of development. On the contrary, the type of light mature women will let him appreciate. The woman has substance and ability (can be combined with the above secretary type) to help and get his trust, on the other hand there is not much of a small mind (did not touch his bottom line), preferably with a clear mind (this is similar to the novel but not the same), which will ensure that the winning rate is much larger la.
And the most important thing is to have your own opinion on things and not to follow the crowd, which is the opposite of the fictional woman who is submissive or has a lot of trouble.
In general, novels and idol dramas are the fantasy of middle and high school girls, and in fact, we will gradually understand that what they say is not true when we come out for a few years. Standing in the perspective of the dominant president, this height of the man, there are too many people flattering, what kind of woman you want is almost at your fingertips, there is no need to spend too much effort. So, into his heart of the talent is the most important. And before that, the woman who can reach him, so that he can not afford to be defensive only have this opportunity. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
What if you don’t meet a dominant president? The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. Outside, you can work hard on skin care, do exercise (detoxify the eyes to keep fit); inside, improve their own inner cultivation; in the work should also be diligent intention Oh. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.