Visitor’s self-report:
I like my boyfriend very much, he treats me very well, but I have a straightforward personality and sometimes I lose my temper over small things. My 24 boyfriends and 29 boyfriends have broken up with me three times because I lost my temper. Each time I made up and treated me well, but he couldn’t stand my temper, and I’m trying to correct it now. My boyfriend is divorced and has children. A few days ago, I stumbled upon him saying I love you emotionally cheating on another woman during his ex-wife’s pregnancy. Before that, I always thought my boyfriend was an attractive man. The reason for the divorce was that his ex-wife was very loud and he finally exploded and couldn’t take it. Now I love him very much, but this incident has always been a knot in my heart. We talked about it and I said I could never accept cheating. Once I cheated, I would never do it again. He said that this was before and it will never happen again. Please ask the teacher if there is a better solution to this matter?
Shinya’s emotional analysis:
A man cheating with one woman doesn’t mean he cheats with all women (but he is more likely to cheat than a man who hasn’t cheated before). You also said his ex-wife was loud, which means there is a reason for that. Frankly, in your current situation, maybe he would have cheated with you too. Because from your description we can see that this guy has very little patience and he likes you because you are pretty.
In fact, with your beauty, you can find a better guy, or at least a guy who earns more than him and has no kids. So I suggest you lower your demands and consider if this relationship is right for you. You are very beautiful and will have enough decision making and choice only after being asked to come down. Don’t go down the same road as his ex-wife.