What is reflected in the treatment of condoms is primarily a matter of people’s attitudes toward sex. It has to do with both self-esteem, self-confidence and values.
Some people think that buying condoms is a very common thing and treat it as a normal thing.
There are some people who are not very generous when it comes to buying condoms, and they are very concerned about what others think of them.
This phenomenon is ultimately related to the Chinese concept of sexuality. In Chinese sex education, sex is treated as invisible, bad, and not to be discussed openly and honestly. This conservative approach to sex has led to a conservative attitude toward condoms, which are directly related to sex.
From our perspective, it’s important to think backwards and reflect on our own behavior when it comes to condoms. Sex is a normal thing, it’s part of life, it’s an everyday need like food and clothing.
If you can’t treat it as normal, there can be biases in values or views on sex, and it may even affect your sex life, and we would recommend counseling for that.
Of course, this is not an absolute, but there are examples that we encounter in our counseling where a person’s sexuality is not normal and there are problems with communication and attitudes, and the attitude toward condoms is a direct way of showing this. In such cases, the person is advised to seek professional counseling.
In the present, buying condoms is already a commercial practice that is functional and practical to suit people’s needs, so it is inevitable and normal for it to be abundant and diverse.
The most important thing to note when buying a condom is the quality of the condom, because the purpose of the condom itself is to be “safe”, if its quality is not up to par, not only is it not safe, but it is easy to bring safety risks.
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Women buying condoms means men are dominant
First of all, the thing about buying condoms is that they are knowledgeable about sexual safety. Moreover, the naturalness of buying condoms is usually proportional to the number of times you buy them. In the very first two times, it may seem nervous, unnatural and ungenerous; however, usually after buying more than three times, it will seem habitual and natural.
Secondly, analyzing the gender of the person buying condoms, condoms are a male product, and it makes sense that a man should be the one to buy them. If it is a woman who goes to buy condoms, it could mean that the woman is the one who gives more in the relationship and cares more about the relationship – removing the fact that the man is really quite busy and doesn’t even have time to buy condoms.
After all, something like buying condoms is relatively more private for a woman, and the fact that a woman can go buy condoms for a man at least shows that it’s the man who is in the dominant position in the relationship.
Once again, the choice of condom buying can also reveal the characteristics of the buyer.
Those who prefer to buy from outdoor condom vending machines are often minors, or those with less sexual experience, who see the freedom of condom vending machines as a way of not having to go through the scrutiny of others;
and those who buy condoms at large supermarkets are usually more home-based consumers;
Those who prefer to buy condoms at 24-hour convenience stores are usually more home-based.
People who like to buy condoms at 24-hour convenience stores usually have more nightlife and higher spending power, and they see sex as a consumer good and have a relatively open attitude toward it.
These are the people who are used to buying from pharmacies.