As people grow up, they seem to have less and less interactions with their parents in their lives, and their girlfriends and boyfriends are becoming the people we can trust the most, or even the only people we can communicate with. The actual fact is that, no matter what the novel, movie or real life, our feelings always seem to revolve around the triangle of “me, my boyfriend and my best friend”. The most important thing is that you have to be able to get the best out of your boyfriend.
BFF says your boyfriend hit on her and she’s not budging. The boyfriend says he has your BFF’s number on his phone (and doesn’t have his name on it) and he doesn’t know what’s going on. The actual babe, you are confused whether you should believe your boyfriend or your bestie? The question is not hard to answer for any girl with a little emotional intelligence.
Assuming your BFF is lying, what’s the motivation? Because your family is better off than hers and she hates that your life is going too well (a question you didn’t mention and have to weigh yourself)? Because she’s single and hungry (obviously the other person has a boyfriend)? Because your man looks or material conditions are good enough to be attractive to her (you also said she is happy with her boyfriend and your boyfriend has little money)? Because she lacks fatherly love and also needs an older man with a 20 year age difference (so does she usually have a strong paternalistic brother complex showing up)?
Assuming your boyfriend isn’t lying, how do you explain the phone number of your bestie on his phone? How did the phone number come about (did the girlfriend give it to him voluntarily, or did he ask for it)? The history of their calls have you checked (how many times they called, who called who, how long each call lasted)? What is his motive for saving only the phone number but not the name (forgot to save it, or afraid you will find out)? The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Baby, actually women in love are not all dumb, but are willing to pretend they are and choose not to see the truth. When your bestie and boyfriend are each in agreement, the two people’s appearance, economic conditions, spousal situation, psychological motives, modus operandi, personality habits and so on you can think of details one by one to take apart the comparative analysis, you can quickly assess the credibility of each of the two people. Obviously, your bestie does not need a man like your boyfriend, and it is difficult for you to justify yourself to your boyfriend, so what to do with it you have to think it through yourself.
But whether you choose to break up with this man or not, it’s time to try to get out and find a new job. Unless you can give you a mansion, villa, credit card any swipe life, or hold a responsible mentality for children need to have a person to stay at home to raise their children, or all the bred behavior of men to women even if they are packaged more magnificent, the bones are selfish only for their own consideration, for people and extremely short-sighted.
Imagine that he would have been older, and in a decade or so he would probably not have the ability to earn money, and in case he had some money-consuming illness, and you would have been out of society for a decade or so, what would two people be able to do to raise a child who is only in elementary school? This kind of life is the entity of love you want?